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when do you give in and take them to the doctors?

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ernest · 11/03/2008 14:17

I never know when to take them. With 3 kids, and other non-ilness things as well like health checks, skin infections etc I feel like I'm always boody at docotrs. I honestly feel embarassed phoning up - "it's me again " I feel like I'm there so much I now avoid going...

But possibly at their expense? eg ds3 had temp of 40 ish for 3 days before I phoned last time. Then I drive myself mad, should I have gone earlier? Or not at all (2 days later he was fine, so I kick myself that I didn't just sit it out)

Ds1 (8) now a bit ill. He's had (not very high) temperature since Friday. The calpol has been dealing with it. And cough, and on-and-off sore throat. Today however, while his temp seems normal, or only a teeny bit high, he's had bouts of pain that've made him cry a lot. Can't quite decide if he means his sinuses (nose area) he says it's inside, not the skin surface, but seems to be more nostrils than where I would've thought he'd be pointing if it was his sinuses. Now he's crying that his throat is very painful He doesn't usually cry. He's now napping. So, do I look like neurotic mum and phone doctor, or do I ride this one out?

And what is your rule of thumb for doc visits.

Ta

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TotalChaos · 11/03/2008 14:21

I agree with mmj. I would go to the docs if DS was unusually feverish/miserable/lethargic.

ernest · 11/03/2008 14:34

I've given in and rung up. He'd better be bloody REALLY ill. Honestly.

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ernest · 11/03/2008 17:27

I really hate it too, but I hate going along and feeling like a neurotic mother too. Anyway, we went. Doctor is absolutely wonderful btw, and has a fantastic manner which always delights the kids, so they act as if nothing's wrong, then the minutes he goes they flake again . Honestly I feel like kicing them or something just to ake sure they're thoroughly miserable when we go in ( )

Anyway, it's viral, not bacterial ( what a drama taking the sab at back of throat) so just need to sit it out, which makes me wish I hadn't gone.

Does anyone have a fail-safe rule for when they're 'poorly' - x temp for x amount of time? I don't know. I'm always unsure and undecided, usually feel I left it too late, or wish I hadn't bothered when I do eventually take them. should've married a doctor.

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shelleylou · 11/03/2008 17:43

i go on my instinct, took ds(16 months) today after having a little bit of a cough and bit of wheeze last night and wheeze got worse this morning so we went, yet another chest infection. Im a bit neurotic when it comes to that, but i know the first signs so tend to worry when he gets them.

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Elibean · 11/03/2008 18:37

All mothers are neurotic, or nearly

I always go to the doctors if in doubt, and have never really regretted it. On one occasion, its saved dd2's life. On countless others its been reassuring, and thats a big part of their job (so they tell me)

I'm glad you took him!

shelleylou · 11/03/2008 19:28

Thats why im so vigilent with ds's chest, was rushed to hospital when he was tiny, stopped breathing a few times went grey blue lips etc from bronchiolitus which he had quite badly so i refuse to take the risk with his chest.

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