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Dh has a problem

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missinformed · 06/03/2008 21:14

Feel awful for writing this but really need to share & ask for advice. Dh is suffering with erectile dysfunction atm. The thing is I'm desperate for dc 2, which i'm trying really hard not to make an issue of. Dh insists that it isn't a medical problem and he doesn't need to go to dr. Sorry if tmi now, but he can cum when he masterbates. Sun morning most successful go at intercourse of late, then i've spoilt it all by trying (as know it's ovulation time) inhaving a nother go the next night, but said he didn't want to push his luck. Now i feel like he's keeping his distance and don't know what to do.
Thing is I'm feeling all pressured as have reached that uncomfortable 35 age and feel the clock is getting faster.

What to do, what to do. Please any advice gratefully received.

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mamalovesmojitos · 06/03/2008 22:02

hi miss. dont really have any advice, haven't been in situation of trying to conceive (dd a happy accident ). do you think its possible that your dh's dysfunction is due to stress of trying to conceieve? perhaps as he's not ready for another child? or maybe he just feels like he has to 'perform'? wouldn't be unusual i'd say...

cmotdibbler · 07/03/2008 11:17

He does need to go to the Drs - theres loads of reasons for ED to develop, many of which can be treated. If theres no medical reason, then theres several drugs which work really well.

Would be worth a serious sit down talk about how he feels about another DC - does sound like you might be putting a lot of pressure on about it. And 35 really isn't that old.

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