Hello,
I’m after some friendly advice more than anything and I have a lot of health anxiety, which doesn’t help.
I’m 29, my son was born in November 2021, it was a complicated birth.
Fast forward to around September/October 2022, I started to notice bright red blood when wiping occasionally. It would happen and then 6 weeks later, happen again. I had a telephone GP appointment in December 2022 where she said it was likely a fissure and prescribed me a suppository.
Over the next few months, the bleeding was on and off and most of the time, it was accompanied by a glass cutting pain and usually when my poo was harder.
I went back to the GP in May due to bruising on my legs (which has now stopped, think it was me itching), tiredness and aches/pains. I mentioned it then and it was dismissed as I said it was red and only when I wiped after pooing. I was sent for some bloods and the ‘only’ flag was low vitamin d.
The hard stools, red blood on wiping and pain has since been more frequent, it clears and then comes back again. My bowel motion is still regular and no pain/cramps.
I spoke to the GP today about was I was experiencing (as it was a different GP) and she said that my iron was borderline low last time and that I should have been advised to have them redone 1-4 weeks later (which I wasn’t). She then said, given my symptoms, it would be a repeat of bloods to check the iron and the stool sample kit in the post to me to check for bows cancer.
I couldn’t quite believe she was following the bowel cancer route, straight off the bat and I cried. I asked if she would please mind having a look. She did and said I had a visible fissure but her management/follow up remains the same, that I do the stool sample.
i have occasional red blood when wiping, occasional pain when pooing, aches, some tiredness (but not uncontrollable) and the borderline low iron.
I had also seen a physio for my muscle aches who thought it was muscular and stress.
I am petrified, the GP’s delivery of it was really scary and I’m panicking. I am so worried about having cancer and being unable to be there for my beautiful son.