I have a wisdom tooth in my lower jaw that grows sideways, its partially sticking out and and is a complete nuisance and its hard to clean, and is painful when it decides to frow. I was referred to the oral surgeon for this, and finally had an appointment - but did not have it done as got absolutely terrified. The dentist was very professional but had zero compassion. He was also quite off with me: my dentist when she referred me suggested that I cant have that tooth removed as its too close to some nerves in my jaw, and might need only part of it removed; i mentioned it to this guy and he basically told me that he will do whatever I want but he thinks I can have the tooth removed safely and leaving roots in might cause problems in the future. But that he doesn't really care and do whatever. Then he proceeded to tell me how to remove the tooth he will need to cut the jaw and cut the tooth to bits, take it out and then stitch the gum. I literally nearly fainted. He just laughed. Anyway, I asked to have another appointment as I want quite ready. I know I need it doing as I was told it looks like its starting to rot underneath and it started to affect my jawbone, but I feel totally scared and dreading it. I had a wisdom tooth removed before and I was unwell for days, in s much pain - and it was a straight forward removal, no cutting anything. Also, I read a lot about complications from having this done, and its not nice. Anyone there who had a similar experience? I need some advice and support!