My 2 year (25 month) old ds has been referred to a pediatric ENT consultant because his ears have been blocked for months with wax and fluid and now the GP has confirmed that he's also harbouring an unusual bacterial infection in his ears which can't be cured with the usual child-friendly antibiotics. I'm worried about this because I've only just begun to realise that he really can't hear very well - he's quite a way behind his contemporaries in speech development and he often only reacts to what I am saying when he is looking at my face or when I am gesturing...
The GP wasn't able to comment on what the consultant would do when we see him, but having looked on the internet it seems that many consultants are reluctant to syringe a 2 year old's ears in case of causing damage. However I've also read that the wax-eating drugs which may be given instead can also damage the ears...
Does anyone have any experience of this? Anyone whose young child has been through a similar thing and had their ears syringed or cleaned? Also, once the problem has been dealt with, are they able to catch up with other children in terms of language development? I'm feeling quite bad about this because I didn't react quickly enough back in Oct when I first realised he had a problem with his ears (bad smell, pulling at them a lot, etc) and I'm afraid the problem may have got quite a lot worse in the meantime. Any comments or suggestions much appreciated... thanks.