If you can afford it, you might get some insight from the Zoe Nutrition study. It is used to understand how food affects your health.
We all have a quite unique glucose and lipid metabolism. The speed at which we clear glucose from our blood or the spikes in blood glucose can sometimes explain low energy levels. Do you dip very low during the night.
In the Zoe project you wear a continuous glucose monitor and you also analyse with a prick test your lipids clearance. A lot of people use it for weight loss, but looking at how you process your nutrients allows you to select foods on which your body and mind work at their best.
Foods that you body struggle with, even without your knowledge because of the lack of symptoms , will waste energy .
A few more points to consider. If you are using an app, do you know your protein intake? Again this is something that is unique for each.
Have you considered to eat soya to help with the possible perimenopause?
I hate how women are thrown in that bucket just because we are past mid 40s, but the phytoestrogens in soya can help with symptoms. Fatigue is a very vague and general symptom and if it doesn't resolve in 3 months with an iron supplement, book a new appointment. If you were to go to the GP because of hot flushes, then yes, peri could be to blame, just fatigue on its own, even combined with age, doesn't point necessarily to peri. Are you periods still regular in time (frequency, duration) and usual in flux (more or less abundant) ?
On Calcium, you need to know that unless you take K2 - or eat natto if you can stomach it - it won't necessarily go where you want it , in your bones. The Thorne multi has K2 in it so you are covered.
Do you use any wearable such as an Oura ring or Apple Watch / fit bit? Good sleep is far more than duration and heart rate variability at night, can help explain fatigue .
Try to keep a diary of sleep, energy , because if your fatigue is affecting your daily living, you are declining dinners out with friends, no longer going to cinema or unable to go for long walks, it warrants investigations, but you need to tell your GP a bit more than " I am sooooo tired" and ask him/her : if I was a man , would you do something differently?
See how you go with the multi and iron supplements.
You don't need a prescription to retest your iron. Some pharmacies sell prick tests, a couple of drops from your fingertip and result is immediate.