No period and anxious about being pregnant

[Havanawinter]

I haven’t had a period since just before Christmas. I am 32 (nearly 33), periods regular as clockwork but I haven’t had one for over 10 weeks now and I’m so paranoid I’m pregnant. I don’t want to be insensitive to anyone suffering infertility issues but I really do not want to be pregnant. I have two sons and fell pregnant the first month of trying with both. DH and I using condoms currently because I don’t get on with hormonal contraceptives. I’ve taken two pregnancy tests and both are negative but I’ve got myself in such a pickle that I’m pregnant but too far along for tests to show positive… is that even a thing? I have a doctors appointment for 2 weeks time but driving myself mad over here and looking for reassurance.

Just to add, I don’t feel pregnant at all. I was very sick with my two pregnancies but I feel fine. I also intermittently get period pains but they go away with no bleeding to show for it.

Tests tend to show as positive all the way through pregnancy. Do you have any other symtoms, nausea, fatigue, headaches, sore boobs, food aversions, mood swings etc? Are you stressed anyway?

Cross posted. Does you tummy feel unusual, any spotting?

No spotting and tummy feels normal. I feel totally normal in every way except for the lack of period. I don’t feel overly stressed; ironically the thing making me feel most stressed is this whole period situation.

Early menopause in the family?

Not as far as I know, I seem to remember my mum going through it when I was a late teen so she would have been late forties.

Have you been really careful with the condoms? Used them before any pre - cum etc? It is strange really, maybe just one of those things. Keep testing.

Could be PCOS. I had normal periods for years and then all of a sudden they stopped, never had one for 7 months. Blood tests and an ultrasound confirmed PCOS.