Advice on re-entry to life after long illness?

[Broadleaves]

An illness made me housebound for a year. I’m making a full recovery and expect to return to work, full social life etc within 2 months. The practical and health sides are fine, DP and GP v supportive and so is my employer and occupational health. But I’ve missed a year out there in the world and it feels weird - I’m so happy and grateful for my recovery, but at other times I am so sad at what I’ve missed. And I haven’t had to deal with friends’ and colleagues’ responses yet. If anyone has any experience of this, any advice, I’d really appreciate it thank you

Hi @Broadleaves ,
I too lived in relative isolation for a year post stem cell transplant. As my new immune system was very compromised my social interactions were somewhat limited. Iwas very open with my friends from the start of my illness so there was never any awkwardness.
I am someone who looks at what I can do rather than what I can't so looked for ways round things. I took it slowly only seeing friends one at a time and distanced if indoors( they had to be in robust health no sniffles etc!)
I slowly built up to having a coffee outside, then lunch etc. I wore a mask if in shops etc. I am almost 2 years post transplant and feel much more me. Just take your time there is no rush and good friends will understand. My friends were just so desperate to support me so don't be afraid to ask for what makes you feel comfortable to socialise.with them. They will just be so pleased you are revovering. The first time I had lunch with a friend she had gone to the restaurant prior and told them what table she wanted in a quiet corner away from the biz. I have found people to be immensely kind and understanding of my situation.
I hope this is helpful.

Thank you very much @Alittlewornout this is really helpful. I am so glad you are doing well and that you’ve had such positive experiences. I’m blessed with good friends and you’ve given me some tips about how to ask for help and what kind of support I may need.