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Sleeping tablet recommendations for an elderly lady please

25 replies

Marie2023 · 25/02/2023 09:02

Hello, my elderly mum suffers from terrible insomnia. She has tried Zopiclone and Mirtazapine but neither worked for her. Would really appreciate some other suggestions. Many thanks.

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QuertyGirl · 25/02/2023 09:03

She should speak to her GP

Helenloveslee4eva · 25/02/2023 09:05

Yeah…. None.

speak to the Gp.

generally sedatives are to be avoided ( cause falls apart from addiction issues etc ). Needs investigation of why not sleeping and the cause sorting.

Marie2023 · 25/02/2023 10:05

It was the GP who prescribed the tablets she’s taken. Unfortunately they didn’t work, which is why I am asking for suggestions on here.

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MichelleScarn · 25/02/2023 10:08

Has she gone back to the GP? In what way are they not working and is this from her, or is there cognitive impairment and expectation they'll sedate her overnight and she's up and wandering?

AnnaMagnani · 25/02/2023 10:12

None. Sleeping tablets are only recommended for v short term use and are generally to be avoided in the elderly due to increasing the risk of falls.

Has she tried the standard sleep hygiene things - making sure she gets daylight every day, exercising, a bedtime routine and no distractions?

SecretDoor · 25/02/2023 11:35

Melatonin

SecretDoor · 25/02/2023 11:37

cks.nice.org.uk/topics/insomnia/

Soonenough · 25/02/2023 11:38

So hard . I know as I have been battling to get dosage right with my uncle. He takes Dalmane and has done for a long time. It is one of the older types so may not be recommended now.

polkadotpixie · 25/02/2023 11:50

Trazodone? I found it helpful for my sleep issues, although I'm not elderly

vivainsomnia · 25/02/2023 18:24

I second melatonin. Can be bought safely and legally from online pharmacy from the US.

Marie2023 · 26/02/2023 09:24

The GP is against prescribing Melatonin, for some reason. I will look into the other suggestions, thank you.

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Lifeisnotabedofroses · 26/02/2023 09:27

I would ask about low dose amitriptyline. Started for something else and works wonders for a night’s sleep. At low dose can continue indefinitely. Obviously via GP.

Eatentoomanyroses · 26/02/2023 09:31

I had sleeping tablets from the doctors including zopiclone but actually found the non herbal nytol more effective

Mabelface · 26/02/2023 09:33

A dry herb vape and cannabis. Also helps stimulate poor appetite.

purpledalmation · 26/02/2023 09:59

You can import melatonin from America. You only need a small dose like 4 mg it's actually detrimental to take large doses. They are really no big deal and I can't see why the GO won't prescribe. Melatonin decreases as you get older.

CorsicaDreaming · 26/02/2023 09:59

Has she already tried non prescription routes?

A variety of things that help me -

Blue Nytol (available over counter at pharmacy, old fashioned anti histamine that can promote sleep)
Green Nytol (herbal based)
Any of the herbal teas (lavender, hops, chamomile, valerian, etc - called Sleep Easy, Snore and Peace, etc - try a variety to find one she likes

Dr Vogels Dormesan
Dr Vogels Passiflora

Meditation

Accept that we sleep more fitfully as we age and relax into being awake for a period in the night (in the Middle Ages they had a specific term for it). Just lie and be calm and rest / read a book for half an hour. I think the anxiety about not being asleep can be really counterproductive and almost worse than not sleeping. But easier said than done.

Cheesedoffandgrumpy · 26/02/2023 10:22

Sleeping tablets are not a good option as they do not allow for all the necessary stages of sleep.
I can recommend gettig out in the sun, outside, in the morning. This is a strong signal to the body clock.
I also use a red light therapy device in the evening.
Both these things helped me.
Also think about checking her diet, and possibly adding a good vitamin and mineral supplement as deficiencies can also affect sleep.

CorsicaDreaming · 26/02/2023 10:54

Yes to add to what cheese says, quite a few threads on her discuss Magnesium as being important for sleep. Worth having a read of them too

custardbear · 26/02/2023 11:09

Piriton

Corsica2023 · 26/02/2023 13:23

My mum would occasionally have Nytol when she needed a good night's sleep.

SecretDoor · 26/02/2023 20:35

Marie2023 · 26/02/2023 09:24

The GP is against prescribing Melatonin, for some reason. I will look into the other suggestions, thank you.

Probably either the cost or it is not on the local formulary.
It is generally well tolerated and has little in way of side effects.

DedicatedFollowerOfFashion84 · 26/02/2023 20:41

vivainsomnia · 25/02/2023 18:24

I second melatonin. Can be bought safely and legally from online pharmacy from the US.

It’s legal to buy in the US, it’s illegal to have in the UK without a prescription.

vivainsomnia · 26/02/2023 21:25

It’s legal to buy in the US, it’s illegal to have in the UK without a prescription

It's perfectly legal to buy online.

Melatonin can be prescribed by GP over a certain age, I think 65. They can't prescribed for those you get because it is not licenced for under that age. It is safe, but there is no money to gain to try to licence it.

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