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Flu recovery - is it time to get back to normal life?

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MrsCornelius · 06/01/2023 09:05

Hi all, I’ve had this awful flu bug that’s going round, on and off now for a month.
Symptoms shifted through fever + massive sneezing + streaming watery cold to aches and pains and fatigue and are now largely settled at flat out exhaustion, cough, diarrhoea, vague nausea and a sort of spaced out “not really here” feeling. Am on antibiotics and inhaler for suspected chest infection. Doc says to “follow what my body needs” 🤷🏼‍♀️

My question is, having spent nearly a month “invaliding”, unable to get out of bed etc, is it time now to get up and try and get back to normal life? I feel I could just stay in bed forever now, totally energiless and flat and frankly, pretty depressed ☹️
But not sure if it’s my body telling me I need to rest or if my mind’s just given up trying 😰
Anyone got any helpful advice? Or experience of dealing with this never ending bug and slow recovery?
🙏🏼

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midgetastic · 06/01/2023 09:21

That flat feeling suggests it's time to try

I'd recommend getting a bit of fresh air and taking it from there

ScarlettDarling · 06/01/2023 09:26

I don’t think it’s a good idea to go straight back into normal life but why don’t you try going for a short walk. Just ten minutes wrapped up warm in the fresh air and try and increase it by 5 mins a day?
I’ve had a nasty bug for the last week. I’ve not been really ill but have been very under the weather and haven’t slept properly. It’s left me feeling very flat, tired and a bit teary to be honest. I’m going out for a walk this morning to try and blow a few cobwebs away. My legs feel like lead so I’ll not go far but even 20 mins around the block will be something.

megletthesecond · 06/01/2023 09:28

You should try going for short walks, ideally in sunshine if it pops out.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 06/01/2023 09:28

I've had flu twice and it took at least 6 weeks to feel anywhere near like doing anything and even then it was slow going. Start slowly and get some fresh air but just a 10 min walk and build it up. Floridex tonic is excellent after flu.

MrsCornelius · 06/01/2023 13:30

Thanks for the replies - I did an hours gentle housework (put on and hung out a wash, changed bedding, wiped down bathroom) and am absolutely flattened and back in bed 😩

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midgetastic · 06/01/2023 14:14

Well that's fine - recovery will take a while

Still think you should be excused housework until you are a fair bit better

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 06/01/2023 15:13

MrsCornelius · 06/01/2023 13:30

Thanks for the replies - I did an hours gentle housework (put on and hung out a wash, changed bedding, wiped down bathroom) and am absolutely flattened and back in bed 😩

I wouldn't describe that as gentle house work especially not changing the bed. You need to factor in daily naps/ rests and do the minimum for a bit and not be impatient with your recovery. There's a reason people used to go to the seaside for recovery.

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