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Brain edema

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pomegranatepie · 05/12/2022 17:49

This is long and probably rambling. Sorry, it been alot. I took my DH into a&e three weeks ago, as he started saying random out of context things, kept falling asleep and had been generally unwell with aches and pains. He became more and more confused as we were waiting, and after a CT scan I was told by a very serious and visibly shaken Dr that it was bad news. They told me that he had swelling and what looked like a mass. We waited all night for an emergency MRI, which they said confirmed that he had a tumour. He was immediately given a heavy duty course of steroids. A week and a MDT meeting later, I found out that they were 99% sure that it was a butterfly glioma. He was unaware and confused for 5 days, but became finally lucid (with no memory of the previous week). I have an 8 year old DS so spent two weeks waiting for a follow up MRI in survival mode, between school runs and hospital visits with a very unwell DH.
We then got told that the follow up MRI in fact showed that the swelling had shrank so much that it couldn't possibly be a tumour. He has been discharged, but we have absolutely no idea what is going on. Obviously it feels like an actual miracle that it is not the butterfly glioma, but it is a something, we are told rare and unusual with a long list of possible diagnosis, which we will have to wait weeks to find out. He is home, but horrendously fatigued and vulnerable, mostly sleeping, and still taking the steroids. I'm exhausted, shell shocked and very very worried. Does anyone have any idea of what I should expect in terms of recovery from a brain swelling? We have been told they are looking into autoimmune encephalitis, amongst other things, does anyone have any experience of this?

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Justwingingitox · 05/12/2022 18:35

Hello, I have no experience but was more a little hand hold after reading, I didn't not want to comment.
What a scary time for you all.
I really hope you get some answers sooner rather than later, and I wish your DH well.
Keep strong 💪 ❤️ x x

pomegranatepie · 05/12/2022 18:43

Thank you ❤️ It's been an absolutely terrifying rollercoaster. I'm so utterly relieved to have him home, and not be dealing with an inoperable brain tumor, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect now. I'm exhausted.

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Justwingingitox · 05/12/2022 18:54

@pomegranatepie I can imagine, bless you. I really hope someone can shed some light or personal experience to help you out a little.
I imagine it'll be a long road ahead of test and waiting for answers, please make sure you look after yourself during all of this. You're only human 😘❤

1Sky · 05/12/2022 20:28

How horrendous for you. Beware that the steroids will most likely make him feel weird too.

My best friend had encephalitis when I lived with her for weeks and was v ill with it. Also confused but with absolutely killer headaches. She wasn't hospitalised but had the doctor visit her a few times (when they did home visits!).

1Sky · 05/12/2022 20:28

How are they going to diagnose him now?

pomegranatepie · 05/12/2022 20:56

They took lots of fluid from a lumbar puncture, and his blood has been sent all over the UK for specialist testing. We will see a neurologist in a week or two, and hopefully get some answers. In the meantime he is mostly sleeping, but lucid at least while he is awake. I'm feeling quite alone, as he is a bit of a shadow of his normal self. How long did it take your friend to feel back to herself?

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warnc007 · 05/12/2022 21:07

I am sorry that you're going through this. My husband and I have been through something very similar recently. He had a seizure out of the blue in May. MRI and CT scans showed a mass. Further smaller seizures happened and then I had to rush him to hospital as he was really unwell, vomiting, horrendous headache, not really with it and a scan showed his mass was bleeding heavily. Steroids seemed to stop the bleeding and after two weeks in hospital he was allowed home and was a lot better. An MDT confirmed that surgery was the best option to remove the mass. The day before surgery in September a clinical researcher signed him up for a trial as apparently his tumour was really rare - first time we'd had it confirmed as a tumour. Surgery went surprisingly well and two weeks later his consultant confirmed after full pathology results that it was an AVM and 99% certain not a tumour. He had another scan yesterday and gets the results in January. He has recovered well but has a few issues still unfortunately. My advice is to be patient as it's been really frustrating for my husband to not be able to do the things he used to be able to do. Avoid Google as well as it won't help. Good luck to you both.

pomegranatepie · 06/12/2022 07:32

I'm so sorry to hear that you have been going through something similar, it sounds like a terrifying and exhausting time. I managed to stay off Google while he was hospitalised, but I am so desperate for guidance and answers I am struggling now he is home. Waiting for results and a diagnosis is so difficult, and there is so much uncertaincy. Hopefully we will see a neurologist soon, and can figure out the best way to get him better.

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Justwingingitox · 06/12/2022 07:44

Keep us updated every step of the way. Even if you just need a chat 🥰 xx

pomegranatepie · 08/12/2022 16:41

We just had a reassuring and informative appointment with the GP. The fact that he has responded so well to treatment, and didn't have any seizures is really encouraging. He has what they are calling a neuroinflamatory lesion. What they thought was a 8cm x 4cm tumor was inflammation around this lesion, and has reduced significantly. More tests and follow up with neurologist will hopefully give us more information, but we may not ever fully know what happened, as it is such a rare thing. It's possible that it has been there for years, and an autoimmune flare caused the swelling. They also mentioned the possibility of PML (which the GP told me not to Google and that she thought it was unlikely. Hope she is right) Steroid treatment will be ongoing for now, and maybe for some time. Neurologist appointment not until February. He is still very tired, and a bit shocked and worried, but is getting there. She seems to think it's unlikely to have caused any permanent cognitive damage, as he seems to be himself again.
I'm exhausted, trying not to worry, but feeling quite alone

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