when he isnt working he will start having a vodka n orange in the morning and throughout the day. when hes working he;ll have 1 near enough as soon as he gets home.
he doesnt get drunk all the time but i can tell when he is.
im scared for him as im sure he is damaging himself and i dont want dd to grow up without her daddy just because he likes a drink.
i have spoken to him about it before and he said that he would calm down because it was also affecting his sex drive etc
so far he hasnt cut down at all. when he goes out (sometimes fri,sat,sun maybe during the week) he will more often come home pissed and although he is funny at the time he can also be a pain n cause an argument. then lays in bed most of the next day complaining that he has a 'virus'
sometimes i think that he is only drinking because of me. i.e i drive him to it then i start feeling guilty
sorry for writing this here but think i just need to vent off. i dont mind if no advice is given because to be honest i dont think any can.