Ah, so your daughter really is so special. How delightful. I am sure she will be all you ever dreamed of.
The mooncup!! Read so much about this, but because of the excessive bleeding it was never an option. Now I feel like trying this. Is it really effective? I don;t like clogging up the planet and thats exactly how I have been feeling - all that fabric down the pan etc.
How long were you advised not to insert anything? My consultant said to wear pads for 2 weeks. I complied but it was a culture shock, particularly after having to wear two super-plus tampons for 3 days plus a pad on sticker from age 14, but I got through it. After two weeks I felt well enough to go back to tampons.
I don't know what you mean by 'dd and dh'??
It will be good for you to get your first period post-op over and done with - one less thing to wonder/worry about. Have you had any excessive pmt symptoms? As I said earlier, my first period was very painful (cramp was never really my problem - it was the excessive loss) and the breast tension has been horrendous. Even now, after finishing my first period they are still tender.
Its sad that even though there was absolutely nothing wrong with my body, I have had to have surgery to correct the dreaded hormones. In May 2007, as I recovered from anaesthetic from a hysteroscopy, my consultant told my husband that I was "as clean as a whistle", (typical manspeak) ie I had no fibroids/endometreosis/polyps etc. Just a basic hormone imbalance which rendered my reproductive organs completely out of control and so controlling my life. Maybe modern science not so clever afterall!!!
Ellie xx
ps WHY are gynacologist all male?? I had to fight with mine to get him to do Novasure, to the point that after listening to him extol the virtues of Mirena, and the statistical success rate, I lost it big time and I banged on his desk and yelled "THATS ALL VERY WELL, BUT YOU ARE NOT A BLOODY WOMAN!