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Down about my terrible teeth

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Fourfortyfive · 12/03/2022 12:58

I’m in my mid 40s and I’ve got terrible teeth and it’s really starting to get me down. I had braces and teeth removed as a teenager but I chickened out of having more work done including more braces in my late teens. I really really regret that decision now.
I’ve looked into having work done to sort them several times since but I’ve always been scared off by what a big job it is- I’ve got massive overcrowding despite having lots of teeth out including one tooth that’s pretty much sideways. I’ve also got an underbite, I bite off to one side and my jaw is much too small for my teeth. To sort them properly I’m told would involve pretty major surgery to alter my jaw. Some dentists have basically told me it’s too much of a big job to try. In my mid 20s one dentist suggested basically using a device to widen my jaw which looked barbaric but I almost went for it but I chickened out at the last minute.
I’ve always smiled with my mouth closed but when I photo catches me mid laugh or talking I’m suddenly aware of what others see. I think it’s bothering me more as I get older too as somehow I think bad teeth make me look even older. I’d love just to get the front 6 or so along the top straightened as they’re the worst. I just have no idea whether that is possible without also doing something to my jaw or where to start looking for a good orthodontist. I really don’t want to undergo jaw surgery etc but surely there must be a solution that isn’t so drastic? Any helpful dentists about or anyone who’s been in a similar situation who did something that worked?

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Middleagedfrog · 12/03/2022 13:12

Sorry to hear about this, you have my sympathies, if your teeth arn't sorted as a child it becomes £££.
I think you might be better posting this in general health rather than S&B.
It also sounds like you could do with specialist intervention at a dental hospital perhaps? II don't know if you could self refer? f you have a NHS dentist you could start there.

Fourfortyfive · 12/03/2022 13:13

@Middleagedfrog

Sorry to hear about this, you have my sympathies, if your teeth arn't sorted as a child it becomes £££. I think you might be better posting this in general health rather than S&B. It also sounds like you could do with specialist intervention at a dental hospital perhaps? II don't know if you could self refer? f you have a NHS dentist you could start there.
Thanks yes I think I’ve got the wrong section but not sure how to get it moved.
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Tickledtrout · 12/03/2022 13:15

Sorry no advice OP
Mumsnet can move it if you report your thread to them.

Fourfortyfive · 12/03/2022 13:21

@Tickledtrout

Sorry no advice OP Mumsnet can move it if you report your thread to them.
Thanks I’ve done that so hopefully it will be moved
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Ridingthegravytrain · 12/03/2022 13:30

Have you looked into palate expansion (probably the barbaric thing you refused) as a slower way to give your mouth and teeth more space. Or is it too late for that now?

Leggingslife · 12/03/2022 13:32

Invisalign? It's amazing. They can remove or file teeth at the sides to make space for straightening.

Twizbe · 12/03/2022 15:43

I had a bad overbite and hadn't got on with braces as a teenager.

When I was 35 I bit the bullet and saw an orthodontist and got braces. I had 2 teeth removed and a fixed brace for 18 months. Now I have a fixed and removable retainer.

It cost £4k and hands down the best thing I ever did! I love my teeth now. I wish wish wish I'd done it sooner.

My daughter has inherited my overbite and I'm saving now to afford good braces for her when she's a teenager.

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