@GlamGiraffe
It takes weeks if not months.
Prepare to change your lifestyle, habits and expectations.
It sounds like you are suffering a lot of anxiety. Maybe conesuder this as a posdibility and if its even possible speak yo your GP. Some treatment might make this whole situation easier to manage. The back might not be as bad as you think it is. Other factors may be letting it get on top of you.
Step back. Take a breath and relax. Youre in this for the long haul. There us no magic. Just time and hard work.
You are responing to one of my old posts. A lot as happened since. . I no longer go to that osteoath. I have found a much better person who is a physiotherapist not an osteopath and I had my first session with the physiotherapist two days ago. From the start and also by seaking to him on the phone beforehand, I could tell he was far better than the osteopath. His whole apprach was more professional.
He has worked in other practices as well as a hospital and he said to me that I am not as bad as I think I am. ok, the GP and the former osteopath did say I have a mild condition, but this physeotherapist put it in a much better way to ease my concerns.
He wanted to know what the osteopath had done for me and basically told me she was wrong. My GP told me I need to place a rolled up towel in the small of my back whilst sitting, and when I asked the osteopath, she said no under no circumstances do that. When I told the physio what the osteopath said, he said to me that she was wrong to say dont do that because you should support your lumbar. That was a red flag against her professionalism.
I have included a video of the exercises my physio wants me to do which I am doing as instructed and sitting with the towel behind back.
Obviously because he manipulated me in a different way at the first visit, he was activating muscles that had not been activated beforee so I was very sore afterwards (more so than when I went to the osteopath). However today I felt so much better so I think it was a good session and I will carry on with his suggestions and guidance. He said do not sit up in bed, sit in a chair with your legs flat to the ground. Do not cross your legs. I have been consoiusly doing this. It is hard not to want to cross my legs but if I am to feel better, then I have to do as he says.
My worry and anxiety stems from hearing or knowning people who have these issues and they are worse than me and I simply thought I would get as bad as them. One person who I know personally has lower bac issues and sciatica and she told me that she is in constant pain with tingling and cannot sleep at night and has to take painillers several times a day. I am nowhere like that and I feel sorry or her that she is so bad. . One of the things you must not do is wear high heels. She wears 3 inch heels and she told me she does not do her exercises because she has not got the time because she has a young toddler. I did not say anything but I thought to mysel, you shoul not wear high heels and you should do your exercises if you want to get better. I did tell her a couple of weeks ago that high heels were a no non but she obviously has taken no notice.
What she does is up to her but I want to do what is correct. You can wear heels of up to 2 inches which is not considered high but anything above that is not good Having said that, I have never worn heels more than 2 inches because I have always found them unccomortable and thats years before I had this back issue.
The other ting the osteopath said not to do is run or hop or skip. I do an exercise class which involves gentle skipping or a gentle jig. Nothing too strenuous but she said evven gentle will make things worse due to the bouncy movements. The new physio said I can do gentle skipping and jig movements and take is slowly and he could not understand why the osteopath said no. He said it will not harm me.
All in all to conclude.... I am not an anxioius person generally. My new physio put my mind at ease and I will not end up like some of these people who need back injetions, surgery or DDT treatment.
I am going back to this physio in few days time so he can check my progress and advise further, I am so grateful to have found him