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operation tuesday

17 replies

DiscoFever · 15/12/2007 16:34

to have the dermoid cysts on my ovaries removed which have been so, so painful for the last six weeks. am so bloody scared tho. dox said it will initially start off as keyhole then to open surgery and may lose both ovaries. have been a wreck the last two days. i am so terrified

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expatinscotland · 15/12/2007 16:37

poor you!

are you okay if they do have to remove the ovaries?

has someone sat down with you and gone over exactly what will happen? and afterwards?

how long will you remain in hospital?

why are they starting out keyhole and then moving to open surgery? why not just do open and skip filling up the abdomen with gas?

have you had a chance to have your fears addressed?

is it the pain or the anaesthesia that frightens you most?

i requested and got an injection of sedative a couple of hours before my surgery last week - well, it wasn't hard to convince them after my BP reading was 189/105. it helped calm me down a lot.

talk away!

expatinscotland · 15/12/2007 16:38

i need to go clean the kitchen and get tea on, but i'll be back around this evening!

DiscoFever · 15/12/2007 16:44

They said as one of the cysts 9cm long 4 cm wide it may go to open surgery. am not ok to lose both ovaries at all. am 38 - no spring chicken but i do want one more child. i think they have told me all the worst case scenarios and am expecting them all to happen to me.

what surgery did you have? i will ask for sedative cos i am such a wreck.

thanks for answering.

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expatinscotland · 15/12/2007 16:47

i had a missed miscarriage and had an ERPC.

but yes, they have to give you the worst case scenario, which in my case was puncturing the womb and then having to do a csection cut to get in there to stop it if necessary. VERY rare, but they do have to be all gloom and doom about it.

i was a wreck when i went in for admittance and my BP showed it. as i had a few hours to wait, i just asked them if they could help me out, so the anaesthetist gave me something.

they also give you something as soon as they get the IV in in the anaesthesia suite next to theatre.

have you had general anaesthesia before?

or major pain meds?

something that nearly always gets overlooked is that both can be horribly constipating, so take along some prunes and prune juice and get eating and drinking both as soon as you can.

DiscoFever · 15/12/2007 16:55

thanks for prune advise!

no, not had any big op before and this whole problem came out of the blue six weeks ago when one of the cysts twisted and caused excruciating pain which the hosp gave me morphine for (after 18 hours).

Sounds like you have had a rough time with it lately too.

i have to go to hosp at half seven in the morning and op is 3pm.

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expatinscotland · 15/12/2007 21:10

Prunes are your best friend, TRUST ME on this!

You do not want to let it get too bad because it does hurt, and prunes and prune juice are far gentler than Movicol or anything commercial.

Dried apricots and raisins help, too.

Homemade flapjacks - oats, and muesli.

Slso some yoghurt with live cultures because it's likely they'll give you anti-biotics after the op and the last thing you want is trush.

A breakfast of muesli with yoghurt on top is just the thing.

If you can, pick up some acidophilus tablets in your nearest healthfood shop and some arnica, too, for the bruising.

I bruise very easily and have a HUGE bruise on my hand from the IV. Weleda Arnica creme is sorting it out fast.

And tons of water.

I bring my own jug in and my own supply of bottled because i don't like to ring and wait for more water.

I also bring in my own hot water bottle. again, I can't be arsed ringing a buzzer and waiting.

Bring in a travel kettle and have your friend, spouse or relative fill up your water bottle if you need some extra warmth on around the backside - with a towel in between - if constipation is hurting you.

Don't try this yourself right after the anaesthesia, I did just this past week and have a bit of a burn.

DO NOT let the pain catch up with you!!!

Don't try to be brave the first few days, TAKE the pain meds as prescribed even if you have to wake yourself up to take them - bring an alarm clock.

I've had 4 major knee surgeries and learned this lesson the hard way!

Right after a big op is not the time to experiment with being hard when it comes to pain. Your body will heal better when it's not trying to constantly fight off pain, so DO NOT be afraid to ask for what you need!

I have found that I have to play hard ball to get proper pain management here, tbh. I've even had to threaten to sign out AMA and sort things myself in order to get them to cough up the drugs, and luckily I'm not the bashful type, so I hope you get a good deal.

But don't think you're being weak or a pain by asking if you're hurting.

EAR PLUGS. Go get some! Hospitals are noisy and it's hard to sleep.

Some Badger Balm or lavendar oil helps, too.

I'm very anxious and have hypertension problems, so I take along things to help soothe myself.

I bring a bike lock, as well, for my bedside cupboard. Tehy tell you not to bring valuables, but you know, I need he iPod for some chillout music and yoga breathing tapes to calm me down.

At home, a chair by the side of the toilet makes it a lot easier to slide on and off, as does a chair in the bath to shower on (a cancer patient taught me this tip).

DiscoFever · 16/12/2007 11:06

thank goodness i found you and all these tips are brilliant. thankyou. xxx i am not normally an anxious person to be honest but i am just crapping myself about being cut open. have had terrible nightmares about running around the town i live in, sweating trying to find someone immediately after the operation.

am worried how my daughter will be at school (says she wants to go) but have spoken to the head of year so they are aware of things. my daughter has just got over chicken pox so we have had a week together 24/7.

My dh is being so sweet and keeps holding my hand so i have lots of emotional support. I will stock up on raisens i think cos they do "work" for me when it comes to constipation. have had it on and off for six weeks cos of the pain killer Codeine has that effect on me. well, thanks again and i will keep you posted. thanks. xxx

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expatinscotland · 16/12/2007 20:34

Just pack up and it'll take your mind off things when you feel more prepared.

Really once they give you the pre-op drugs in your IV you feel pretty blissful.

By the time they give you something to breathe in you'll just want to really suck it in for some reason, it feels really relaxing and you want to just fill your lungs with it, and then you're gone.

Remember that it's entirely possible they'll be able to remove all the cysts via keyhole.

You'd be surprised what they can do!

Do you have some help to hand after you get home?

We'll be thinking of you and wishing you well.

soanxious · 17/12/2007 09:38

Hiya - I had 10 x 10 cm ovarian cyst removed when I was 17 weeks pregnant!

I had a bikini line cut and it was very painful after, but that's because I was pregnant and all they could give me was Paracetamol!

Still, I went home after 5 days.

They said they were considering removing my ovary and my fallopian tube as it was wrapped all around the cyst but they managed to gently prise it all off - and I have gone on to have another baby

Good luck xx

Santasmissyontheside · 17/12/2007 09:43

good luck.

expatinscotland · 17/12/2007 21:23

Good luck, Disco!

ChristmasSendsMePsycho · 17/12/2007 21:30

good luck for this. not going to give advice as expat cannot be bettered.

wish I knew half those same tips when I had my op a couple years ago!!!! think I may copy and paste so as to keep them handy for if I need anyhting else done on me!!!!

hope all goes how you want tomorrow.

expatinscotland · 17/12/2007 21:35

LOTS of experienece, Psycho.

I think the absolute worst that happened to me was when I had a spinal for a big op.

It went fine. Everything working.

Then, about 3 days later, my bladder stopped working.

I felt the need to go, but couldn't get it out.

Phoned the surgery. They told me I had to go to A&E and be cathertised to jump start things, that sometimes the organs can be sluggish after anaesthesia.

Needless to say, I put it off till I was in AGONY.

But had to give in.

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expatinscotland · 17/12/2007 21:42

Bananas are also your friends post-op.

Anti-inflammatories can give you heartburn so when it's time for pain meds and anti-inflammatories, a little banana slickens things up, then pop the pills and drink a full glass of water with it.

Oooo, this is bringing back memories!

ChristmasSendsMePsycho · 17/12/2007 21:52

oooh....bananas are a good tip for me now.

on volterol all the time at the mo cos of my car accident and so needing something to help line my tummy before when I am not in a 'food mood'.

expat is indeed wise

DiscoFever · 24/12/2007 21:59

hi everyone. just to say i am home. i had open surgery in the end and was in hosp from tues 18th to sunday 23rd. I AM SO GLAD TO BE HOME!

The wound isnt half as bad and had staples removed today.

Had pepper mint tea for the constipation as advised by the nurses as i couldnt face the raisens.

What shocked me the most was that i had to walk into the theatre and get on to the bed as opposed to being taken in in a bed. seemed like a horror movie.

Am so glad i am home. thanks expat for all your advise.

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