I was 25 when I was diagnosed with coeliac disease. I was suffering from exhaustion, anaemia and fainting. In the 10 years since starting a gluten free diet the anaemia has resolved but I’m still so tired.
Before I became ill I worked full time, but around the time of diagnosis I struggled to cope with my job and fell asleep or fainted at work numerous times, resulting in me getting sacked. Then I lived on my (house deposit) savings for a year and basically slept all day. When the money ran out I took a part time job and depending on my hours would have a lie-in before work or a nap afterwards. I was on the poverty line earning 10k per year and barely eating because I couldn’t afford food, but I was just too tired to cope with a full time job.
I got married and when I had DS I struggled to cope. I had virtually no support and I was constantly angry and hysterical due to exhaustion. I once attacked a doorstep salesman because I was finally asleep and he woke me up. At one point I tried to give DS to social services because I was too tired to cope but my husband wouldn’t let me. As DS got older (2-3) I would often doze off on his bed while he played with toys or watched tv beside me.
DS is 4 now and at school. I get 8hrs sleep and get up at 7 to drop him off but I regularly go home and sleep for another 2-3 hours. I have no energy and struggle to concentrate. I find it hard to do housework because my body feels too tired to move. If I’m asleep and someone wakes me up I get angry and sometimes violent.
The doctor says a gluten free diet resolves coeliac related tiredness, and I’m strict with my diet. All my bloods are normal. Basically the doctor has said there’s nothing wrong with you, go away. My condition isn’t defined as a disability so I can’t get any support. But I’m so tired and it’s ruining my life.