Hi @Sickdog I'm a little ahead of you, I had an excision biopsy on a 6MM+ mole nearly 4 weeks a go. I'm waiting for results.
I didn't have the biopsy on the same day as the initial consultation at the hospital but it was inside of 2 weeks I think. My biopsy is quite impressive, my scar is 2 inches and did take a bit of recovery because its located in a very mobile place.
I saw the dr on a Thursday and she made the urgent referral, the hospital called me on the Sunday morning to book me in for the following Tuesday.
Theres some really good advice and calming information on the Cancer UK chat boards, a lady there posts all the facts and figures that make you realise you have odds on your side and treatment is usually surgery only but can involve some checks for spread if its a bit deeper. Its helped me so much understanding how the process works and what to expect if it is a melanoma, like the check for spread if its over a certain thickness being completely standard as a precaution. Not sure if that makes sense.
On my notes I can see they are looking to rule out melanoma and question if it could be 2 different types of benign growth, so theres other possibilities. Mine didn't look like a typical dodgy mole, it was a very pale pink freckle that suddenly grew and deepened into a dark pink so I felt a bit daft going in but I'm glad I did.
I've managed to stay calm waiting but we have had days we've planned dinner out or time with the (adult) kids so I have things to plan and look forward to which really helps. I would also say that both my husband and I have been referred on the 2 week wait for moles before and both times they were looked at and deemed fine with nothing more needed after a visual check, so its not a 100% certainty they will biopsy it. When I went in to the initial clinic where they check moles we were queueing out the door and waiting in storerooms it was so busy, when I went in for the biopsy clinic there were 3 of us waiting.
Best of luck x