Monkey, not sure re the getting pregnant straight away or not. Feel very ambivalent about the whole thing. Would like to lose a stone, stop smoking, have given up alcohol for a month, have taken folic acid for ever and have settled into working and have been there long enough to be entitled to maternity benefits before I get pregnant. Mmm, in an ideal world!
Partly feel let's crack on, I'm 36 soon, aaahh a baabbby and what if it takes ages/I miscarry/can't get pregnant easily or again and partly feel, shit, pregnancy, labour, depression again (? maybe), sleeplessness, not enough money again, another 5 years off work (possibly), no life! Sounds like it might be too late for you though!!!
Lilibet, it didn't hurt having it out as much as it did having it put in. Lay there thinking, I'm a wimp, I'm wincing and I've done childbirth on gas and air, how can I EVER do it again if I'm this pathetic about having my coil out?!!! BTW the nurse said the blood is perfectly normal and nothing to worry about. Phew! Just pregnancy or not to worry about then