Poor MIL has hed breast cancer twice in the last 4 years and at a recent herceptin check up her chest x-ray revealed an enlarged heart. She's also noticed swollen hands and breathlessness. DP is devastated, he understandably feels like she's being picked on by higher forces .
Does anyone have any experience of this? I'm a vet so I've got a fairly good idea she's in the early stages of heart failure but human cardiology is very different to cardiology in domestic animals! Could it be related to the herceptin? She's pretty overweight, doesn't exercise and has a poor diet. I'm trying to diplomatically explain to DP that she can at least have some control over a heart problem by altering her lifestyle a bit, but he just feels like the end is nigh.
One thing after a sodding other, sometimes, innit?