Sorry, was with her and couldn't get back online, hope you're all still about. Symptoms are:-
Physical/Emotional: changed appearance, stressed, anxious, scared, lost confidence, confused, lost pride in appearance
Behaviour: misplacing things, giving me clean things to wash, not able to find money in purse or able to pay for things, takes ages to perform tasks, eats all the time or not at all, unable to cook properly (was previously a good cook, sits indoors watches TV all the time, forgets things a lot, such as buys a jumper and then 3 minutes later can't remember.
She came over from France to buy xmas presents for all the grandchildren. The fruits of her trip is 1 book! She couldn't manage the rest, she said she didn't know what to get although I told her.
Getting her to a specialist is a no no, her mother had alzheimers and it is her worst fear, she's an anxious wreck as it is, plus there is very little really they can do. I just want to rule it out somehow, if it's another kind of mental illness like depression then that's treatable. She denies that she is depressed when I've tried to talk about it although she keeps bursting into tears.