Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

General health

Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. If you have medical concerns, please consult a healthcare professional.

memory issues at 49!

11 replies

TellySavalashairbrush · 19/04/2021 15:20

I am becoming increasingly concerned at my lack of memory retention and wonder if it is normal, or a sign of something more concerning. I have started a work related course (Masters type level) and am really really struggling to retain much of what I am reading/studying. I confess I am not really enjoying the type of study I am having to do, basically in order to ensure I still have my current job (the same one I have done for years!). I literally read and forget almost instantly the information I am trying to learn. Both my parents had dementia, although this was not until they were in their late 70s/80s and I am scared that I could have early onset. I am pretty good at remembering day to day events, times, etc and was -I thought- decent academically, but I have never experienced anything like this before.
I should add I am a long term sufferer of anxiety, but this has never stopped me from doing anything in the past, I usually mask it quite well.

OP posts:
Whippet · 19/04/2021 15:23

Perimenopause/ Menopause?

When I started HRT I was stunned at how sharp my brain felt again!

Aquamarine1029 · 19/04/2021 15:26

Brain fog from peri/menopause.

MarciaDidia · 19/04/2021 15:26

Agree. Look up brain fog and peri menopause.

4PawsGood · 19/04/2021 15:26

I do that when I don’t enjoy the subject matter.

TellySavalashairbrush · 19/04/2021 15:27

I did wonder Whippet. I have been on HRT for about 18 months, but stopped last month as I was concerned about increasing breast density and the risk of cancer. Having said that, I didn't notice a big difference study wise even while I was still on HRT tbh.

OP posts:
RampantIvy · 19/04/2021 15:27

I agree that it could be the menopause. A couple of my workmates are going through the brain fog issues associated with the menopause.

If it's any consolation it does pass. At 62 I remember more than I did 10 years ago.

TellySavalashairbrush · 19/04/2021 15:37

That's reassuring Rampant Smile although I only have a year to pass this qualification and the way things are going, I might have to wait until my 60s before I manage to pass it!

OP posts:
TellySavalashairbrush · 19/04/2021 15:40

That's my worry 4Paws! Its the most boring course ever. I prefer weeding the garden to doing it (and I HATE weeding).

OP posts:
Tanfastic · 19/04/2021 21:38

I'm like this, I'm 48. When I was studying a couple of years ago I found it really difficult to retain the information, not helped by the fact I found it ridiculously boring. I think I learn better when I find it interesting to be honest. When I started my new job a year ago I had so much to learn my head was spinning, took me a long time to grasp everything.

awesomekillick · 21/04/2021 22:45

I was like that at your age to the point my GP referred me for dementia test. I was fine - no dementia at all. "Just" menopausal. Now it's 10 years on, I've forgotten what my limber, agile youthful brain was like.

niceupthedance · 22/04/2021 06:49

I also feel similar and did an online test and was in the 30th percentile for short term memory ! 😱
Doesn't help that I have dyspraxia which makes my working memory particularly crap anyway.
I don't know what the answer is, bit alarmed that it doesn't come back @awesomekillick !

New posts on this thread. Refresh page