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Approaching a GP

6 replies

puppychaos · 07/04/2021 07:53

Hello. I have had a range of pretty serious symptoms for a number of years now. I would really, really, really like to get them checked out however previous GPs have dismissed me and been outright rude, especially when I point them towards specific diagnoses - although who wouldn't research?

I moved to another part of the country recently and would like to approach a GP as it's just getting a bit ridiculous now however my confidence is gone. What's the best way to approach a GP and actually get them to listen? For full disclosure, my symptoms point towards various things including ME and endometriosis - both illnesses I know are pretty 'female' and GPs tend to brush off and ignore for years, so I'm worried I'm in for a bit of a fight but at the same time I really am quite sick and I just want to be listened to Sad

Any advice? Thanks.

OP posts:
Babdoc · 07/04/2021 09:29
  1. Choose a female GP.
  2. Stick to accurately describing your main symptoms and their timescale
  3. Avoid proffering self diagnoses and the results of your internet searches Good luck!
Greensheep242 · 07/04/2021 14:28

Find a GP specialising in womens health. Maybe a list of your symptoms and when they started. Then a section for concerns eg me endometreosis or impacts on your life. Tell the GP you have a number of concerns which are ongoing and be prepared for the GP to lead.

Annietheacrobat · 08/04/2021 18:26

Book a double appointment

MissyB1 · 08/04/2021 18:29

Yes double appointment.
Female GP.
Stick to the facts and be concise - might be helpful to jot down bullet points.

Good luck!

2021mumma · 08/04/2021 18:31

If you think you have endo ask the GP to refer you to BSGE consultant these are the experts.

PinkPlantCase · 08/04/2021 18:34

If you can go with a suggestion of who you might want them to refer you to I’ve found that helps.

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