This is my first time posting hear but have read alot of other threads and there's always great advice given, its quite long so please bare with me there quite alot to explain but if you make it to the end then thankyou so much ... so since having my middle child 9 years ago I have suffered chronic pain and flare ups of fatigue never been on medication for it just managed with self care.. my gp suspected fibromyalgia and referred me to rheumatology last year although I definatley fit the bill for fibro I sometimes felt I wasn't quite severe enough...
I saw specialist in November he gave diagnosis of fibromyalgia even though apart from a few blood tests done previous to rule out a few autoimmune diseases no other testing had been done although they did do a few more blood tests while I was there seeing the specialist ...
from September last year I thought I was just going into a bad flare up however the pain was alot worse and the tiredness was like nothing id felt before by October still no relief so gp decided to put me on sertraline im not sure why as I was complaining of pain and fatigue but I think because I have a diagnosed mental health condition they just pinned it on that 
I had an horrendous reaction to the sertraline I felt like I was dying! I also started with what was at first painless neck spasms but then became painful I came off after 2 weeks but it left me with anxiety attacks for weeks after which made the neck spasms continue...
Things eased a little over Christmas but flared up again early January.. neck spasms reappeared absolute exhaustion I piled 2 stone on in 2 months I was sweating so much more, heart palpitations, breathlessness extreme chest pain that landed me in the a&e twice but nothing found wrong and was sent home with diazapam for 1 week to help back/shoulder tension and neck spasms, tingling in hands and feet, jaw and ear pain, vertigo, always cold, slow healing wounds (diabetes has been ruled out) horrendous pain every so often in my kidney area amongst other horrible symptoms just a general feeling of something not been right,
gps just kept fobbing it off as my fibro although I was adamant there was more to it but they were having non of it and just kept talking about long term medication options and that I had to basically just get on with it, i spent weeks on Methocarbamol muscle relaxers and naproxen and cocodamol non of which helped much only really the diazpam offered some relief for the tight muscles, most of it I could push through however these horrendous neck spasms have been debilitating I have never experienced spasms in my neck apsrt from the odd once or thrice when I've spelt funny but always cleared up after a day or 2 but these have left me unable to run my house or look after my kids properly and I am on the verge on loosing my job i look after a lady with disabilities which I can't do right now, thank god for my partner who is still furloughed and has been AMAZING, I had a neck mri which was all clear at this point I had pretty much given up all hope I reached a very low miserable place,
Then 2 weeks ago got a call to say the bloods I had done back in November had shown I had very low vitamin d (not sure how low I have had to request my results be sent through the post from rheumatology so just waiting on them) i have been put on a loading dose of vit d3 4000ius a day and from reading online I have also started taking magnesium and vitk2 ... gp still didn't believe this had anything to do with my symptoms and still told me it was my fibro and refused to run any other bloods
Then spoke to a diff gp who was amazing and very supportive and said vit d could well be playing a part and we should definatley get my levels sorted before saying for sure whats causing it or looking at longer term medication options shes also booked me in to have my calcium levels and parathyroid function checked ahes prescribed me some more diazpam to use sensibly when neck cramps are really bad
I guess I'm just really in need of some positive words right now I feel life will never get better and I'm just completely no use to anyone
could a deficiency really be causing some of these horrid symptoms??