Oh @user1497873278 I'm so sorry. I had surgery on my L4&5/S1 several years ago and can confirm that it was a success.
I remember only too well the pain that it gave, the falling out of bed because I couldn't feel my feet, and the anger at not being able to do what I wanted to do as well as the exhaustion. All. The. Time.
I have an allergy to opiates and I don't react well to strong painkillers. Gabapentine wasn't for me.
I had the nerve root injections and they worked for a time but I used a chiropractor too who treats subluxation and he got me walking again. I won't lie- it did cost me. 2 sessions a week for 12 weeks but it worked. When I first went I was crying because it took me 30 mins to hobble across a small car park and I could barely sit down. 12 weeks later I was still in a little pain but I was walking much better and could get on with life whilst I was waiting for my operation.
I'm afraid that you will have to push for what you want. Don't let anyone tell you that your Heath isn't a priority. It is.
Are you employed? Does your employer have a health cash plan which would help with the cost of any treatment? They might be able to loan you some money to pay for it and treat it as a salary sacrifice so you wouldn't get taxed on the amount which would help too.
Some thjngs that I have found that do help:
The chiropractic treatment
Reducing the amount of dairy I eat
Taking turmeric supplements as they're a natural anti inflammatory
Making your decision in your own head about how long you want this to last. Don't be a victim at liberty to someone else telling you that you'll have to deal with it and accept it. You don't.
Pm me if you want to chat about it. I was off work for a year and I'm 7 years post op now. Im in my 30s and have 2 little kids. I have arthritis in my spine but it's manageable and I no longer take painkillers
Have you got some help for your mental health through this too? X