Hi I have today been to the gynaecologist for a 2nd appointment because I have had no periods in 4 years after giving birth to my son. I stopped breastfeeding about a year and half ago. The dr today did a scan said that my womb is a bit thicker as it was thin last time but I have lazy overaies. I also no from blood test theta my hormones levels are low. I asked the dr what we could do then and am I able to have children? His answer was to lose wight. And when I lose weight I will have nice healthy skin and hair like him. He also said my overaies are lazy because I’m over weight. Now I no I’m a bit over weight but I’m also less than I was before having my son. I was so embarrassed but then the amazing nurse was lovely. She advised me to get a second opinion which I will be. I found him so rude the nurse was very helpful and kind but feel so embarrassed . When I walked into the office he was doing a recording to send to my dr about what had happened with results and he’s just going to wait and make me see him every 4 months. I want to get a second opinion but I’m also very embarrassed by the way he spoke to me and probably what he will have put on my record about being fat and lazy . The thing that upset me to is I have a skin condition where I lose the pigment from my skin and hair. This has nothing to do with being overweight but he made me feel like it is. I’m so embarrassed but also I want the help I would like to have children again. What would you do would you complain ?