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Feel like I'm falling apart- what's going on?

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Mummyofbananas · 17/02/2021 09:59

I was low on iron a while ago and I took iron for about a year with no problems, since stopping I've had a lot of constipation and bloating.

In the last few months I've started to feel run down and exhausted again like my iron is low- hair is starting to fall out and I have terrible brain fog. My calves ache terribly when I go to bed at night and my forearms are starting to ache a bit as well. Im also boiling hot at bedtime every night but cold most of the day.

My periods have been between 35- 40 days since my baby turned one. They always start with aches before then feeling really depressed during but no major pain or cramps and last around 4 days.
This month though I've taken my period at 22 days- so 2 weeks early and it was a really weird period- it started unexpected with no pain I just woke up to a flood- and it was then a lot more painful than usual with a really tender spot at the front of my stomach (womb/bladder area?). It only lasted two days with none of the emotional symptoms.

I'm starting to feel like something is really wrong- my weight is going up so much, I'm so bloated and look pregnant but not sure how much is bloating and how much is weight gain, and when I bend over it feels like something is in the way. I can tend to be a bit health anxious so I don't know how much I'm overthinking it.

I'm only early 30's so doubt it's perimenopause, I have suspected a cyst as I've had a few large ones in pregnancy.

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MrsEricBana · 17/02/2021 10:02

I'm sorry you aren't feeling well OP. What does the GP say?

idontlikealdi · 17/02/2021 10:03

Do you take a vitamin d supplement?

DeathAndTaxis · 17/02/2021 10:16

My understanding is that women should discuss any significant change around menstruation urgently with their GP.

Fleetheart · 17/02/2021 10:18

Yes go and see the doctor, could be any number of things that is on mumsnet don’t really know.

Mummyofbananas · 17/02/2021 10:41

I've not been to the docs yet it's just been a slow build up of things with nothing major- and as I'm a bit health anxious I always think I'm just worrying about nothing but the early period has made me think I should, I'll probably phone them and make an appointment today.

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Mummyofbananas · 17/02/2021 12:02

@idontlikealdi

Do you take a vitamin d supplement?
no vitamin D, I stopped taking iron a while ago when I ran out.

Thanks everyone, just wanted to know I wasn't being ridiculous making an appointment- my gp can be a bit dismissive.

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