This is posted on Katz's postnatal group and I posted elsewhere too. But still playing on my mond today and worried, wondered if MN can offer any further advice.
Scary morning yesterday for Dh and friends, well all of us really.
Dh, Katz's DH and a couple of other of the lads had a night out last night and stayed over at my place, whilst me and Mollie stayed at Katz's house. All good. Lads had had a good ight - a fair bit to drink but nothing major, two meals (!!!) and then loads of water that night and next morning. We were laughing at how sensible and old they were all getting!
So, Sunday morning one of the lads, P, started to drive Dh and Katz's DH back to Katz, with R following in his car behind.
2 minutes into journey, with no warning, P had a big fit at the wheel. DH and Katz's DH realised when car was drifting towards oncoming cyclist that something was massively wrong. P was shaking, foaming at mouth, glazed over, making funny breathing noises, etc. And with no control over the car which was no starting to swerve.
Luckily on very straight and wide road, although on downhill slope, but automatic car. Dh grabbed wheel and managed to control it, and then had to let go, get down in seat and stop car using the brake with his hands! And poor old Katz's Dh was shouting out at P to try to rouse him, and trying to guide DH too.
DH got ambulance, and Katz's DHmanaged to flag down 4 people, all of whom were doctors bizarely - good thing about living where I do! P was completely out of it, not a clue where he was or anything.
Dh accompanied P to hospital whilst other two got P's car back to our place, and then came over to Katz's house.
Managed to get hold of P's family via is ex wife, a good friend. They got to hospital after they managed to get hold of a car a few hours later. DH stayed with P until then, and passed on all details of what happened to the nurses.
And this is when I think it gets very worrying - P had no memory of this, no history, nothing to suggest it was going to happen. Hospital monitored his blood pressure and took a potasium and blood sugar level, and then a couple of hours discharged him. Saw a doctor there briefly. Doctor even just tried to suggest it might have just been him falling asleep at whelel briefly - both DH and Latz's DH know this was not the case and the symptoms presenting were definitely not indicative of this, and the doctor should have realised this from those notes! No explanation or anything, and no further tests. That's it. He had a big fit, at the wheel of a car, for no reason - and he was free to leave and drive again. He collected his car from us after leaving the hospital and went home on the motorway!
I am stunned he can drive straight away and they aren't doing any further tests or investigations. Is this normal? He could have injured (or worse) that cyclist, or himself, or the others. What if they'd been on a busier road or the motorway, what if he'd been alone in the car, or had had his 6yo son int he car, like he did yesterday, what if......? Doesn't this warrant firther tests before being free to get in a car and drive again?
Dh a bit shaken but okay. Katz's DH the same as is other friend. Must have been hard for those two as they had to just watch and couldn't do anything to control the situation - one from back seat, one from car behind. Dh didn't have time to think about it as he was the one in the passenger seat so was busy.
Very scary for all. Thank goodness they were all ok, and P seems to be ok, if no memory of anything at all. I don't think he has any sense of how serious it all was and how he could have injured himself and others, if not worse. If Dh had not controlled the car that cyclist was in direct path of the pcar to start with, and it was stone walls all along other side where golf club is.
This morning DH is a bit more shaken by it I think. At the time he was so busy just trying to control and stop the car, but now he has had time to do the what ifs, etc.
So - is this a normal discharge thing after a fit - no tests, no problems, just home and drive? P is back at work today, having driven on motorway and with no plans to see the GP!