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Anyone else ALWAYS hurting or ill?

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Coconutbear1 · 05/07/2020 19:58

I feel totally broken right now... I can’t even write this post I’ve hit rock bottom. Every day something is wrong with me, every time someone asks me out I now cancel through fear of being in pain or my body pissing it up, this in turn has led to panic attacks and anxiety. I feel so low.
I HATE telling people about this so this is a first for me, I don’t want to put this pressure on my husband even though he knows I’m not right I don’t want to be THAT person who is always complaining or come across a hypochondriac.
My eyes hurt to even write this, I ran 2km today and threw up and had a headache for the rest of the day, my bladder is constantly hurting day and night and has been for 2 long years (that’s my big one), I have pains all over my body constantly, heart palpitations ALL the time, excess bile in my stomach so I get constant burning. I’m constantly tired and drained.
I’m scared to meet people now so I just turn things down, I’m crying writing this as I’ve honestly had enough.
I have 2 congenital heart conditions, a fourth nerve palsy in my eye, constantly being treated for HPV flares in my cervix and as for my bladder... oh my god! I don’t even know where to go with that one but it’s ruined my life.
Blood tests etc all come back normal. I’m crap on drugs. Last year I had a tumour removed from my bladder. I’m just in and out of hospital all the fucking time.
I just need a hand hold... I’m feeling so down right now. I know there are people who have it worse and I tell myself that every time I get down but right now I can’t pick myself up and I just want to curl up in a ball.

OP posts:
cultkid · 05/07/2020 20:03

This is so horrible to see
Can you have a medication review and meet with the chronic pain team to see if they can sort out some different medication for you?
I'm so sorry you are so sad and hurting so much
Pain rules so many lives. I have pain problems and I have had private treatment of it now for 2.5 years and it's been life saving.
I had used the chronic pain team but didn't find them to be proactive enough and didn't want to wear a fentanyl patch, I wanted more hands on ideas to use less drugs

Can you go private maybe to have a bit of a review? Feeling heard by the pain specialist literally Flicked a switch in my head and I felt that I was no longer alone. I am so grateful I got help xx

cultkid · 06/07/2020 20:37

How you feeling? Xxx

wineandsunshine · 06/07/2020 20:57

Oh op - would you consider counselling? Maybe talking to someone would help with the anxiety you are experiencing.

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