something came out of my vagina recently and im scared.

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Okay context ,me and my bf had our fair share of sexual stuff but never penetration in the vagina. I hadnt met him for 3 months now (we're long distance) and we had anal sex before he went back.

Recently i had notice something was sticking out of my vagina, it felt long and fleshy(around 2 inch and a half long, only 1cm ish wide). It only comes out when i need to use the toilet and went back in afterwards. I panicked( of course) because it was not there before. I masturbate using my fingers so i felt what my vagina felt like. It was never there before. I tried searching online for it, but couldnt find an explaination. Please help. I cant go to the doctors yet due to covid 19 and i would have to alert my parents about it . It may not be a problem in the western world but im in a conservative asian country 😅 my parents had no idea that i had sexual relations with my bf and will for sure disown me if they knew. Will i be okay if i wait for a few more weeks?

is it definitely attached? Can you get your finger in and see if its part of you or if its something youve produced?
I dont see why youd have a prolapse if you havent had children. It could be a decidual cast?

I’d have a very careful explore. I’d possibly use a mirror to try to see exactly what it looks like. My first thought was a tampon, which can change colour and consistency a lot, but would probably smell noticeably. Do you use tampons? If not, the aforementioned decidual cast.

I’d think a prolapse was less likely, but if you can’t see/feel what it is, then you definitely need to speak to a doctor for advice.

Hope you get it sorted soon.

It’s would be very unusual in someone your age of 22 who is virginaly intact & who hasn’t given birth. Any chance it’s a Retained tampon? or something else?

www.nhs.uk/conditions/pelvic-organ-prolapse/

Oh hun, you need to see a doctor and at your age you don't need to take Mum. Tell her you have a lump and you want it taken care of.

I find it really shocking that your first sexual encounter was anal. Sorry to say that, but that is incredibly rare if not unheard of in the west. Please try to take care of yourself and don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do.

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It could be a cervical polyp info about polyps best thing to do is see your doctor/gynaecologist about it.

I just did a google image search for cervical polyps and I’d like to change my guess to that.

If your chap is serious why would he think anal was more respectful than vaginal?

I don't have any idea what it may be but think you should seek medical advice, safely. Why is it too old to be living at home at 22? My DC are nearly 22 and 25 and live at home. And tell me about theor relationships, worries and issues and we are a practicing christian family.

I am sorry if your culture does not afford you the freedom, respect and equality you deserve. I hope your mother would judge your bf equally for what you have both done.

Are you sure it's not from your anus ? It could be a haemmorhoid or skin tag maybe?

I won't link as the lyrics are a bit NSFW but having anal to avoid vaginal sex/loss of virginity is not unheard of in religious communities, as discussed in the song 'The Loophole' by Garfunkel and Oates. And of course a lot of people who practice it for that reason don't use contraception/condoms- that is frowned upon.

OP- please see a doctor. It's allowed during the Corona crisis for anything serious like this. I hope you don't have to tell your parents in order to go. If so you could just say you have a lump or something as previous posters said.

It sounds like a cervical prolapse to me but at your age that would be unusual, even if you were overweight.

Don't push down, don't try to pull it out. Go and see a gynaecologist.

Sorry to say that, but that is incredibly rare if not unheard of in the west.

Apparently it's quite a thing among the purity ring squad in the US. God's little loophole...

It does sound like a prolapse, your doctor will be able to tell you and advise what to do.

I do not see how anal sex is in any way more respectful than vaginal! In fact it's degrading and dangerous. I've never heard the like, I would seriously reconsider your relationship.

If you want to remain a virgin (technically), you can touch, kiss and caress and both reach orgasm if it is that important but for goodness sake, what sort of 'respectful' man sticks his willy up a girl's arse in order to protect her honour? He dishonoured you!

It does sound like a prolapse. Given it’s an issue when you’re toileting your mum doesn’t need to know you’re sexually active.

Although it's more common in older women/ those who have had multiple births, it is also completely normal unfortunately for younger women to go through prolapse.
I have prolapsed bladder and colon. It means that the muscles have gone a bit wrong in that area and those organs are poking through in various places through the vaginal wall. It's rubbish and I'm sorry you're going through this. It can feel very scary. I was told by a gynaecologist to poke the bit sticking through back in again and to do pelvic floor exercises. Also, after a poo pull all your muscles back up and in. Never strain. Sorry this is very graphic but I hope it will help to have some practical advice.
The main advice, of course, is go to the doctors. Good luck

You need to go to your GP. I also come from a conservative Asian background but at your age when it comes to a potential problem with reproductive organs your parents will take it very seriously, believe me.

Might be a genital wart, HPV. You can contract it via anal sex and condoms do not protect you from HPV.

Might be a genital wart

She said it was 2 inch and a half long, only 1cm ish wide

SoupDragon
And? Your point?
They’re not all flat discs you know.

For those suggesting a prolapse please read the link I posted earlier to a cervical polyp. They are very common in young women.

OP - please see a gynae or GP, development of polyps (if that's what it is) is completely unrelated to sexual activity. However no one can diagnose you over the internet - you need to seek medical advice.

“Q. What do the warts look like?

A. They can look soft and fleshy, almost like a skin tag, or they can be rock-hard and large with branches like a cauliflower.

They can be a small little dot or bigger than your fist.”

“Q. Are they easier to treat if discovered early?

A. Yes. Don’t wait if you think you might have genital warts. When you feel a bump, especially around the opening of the vagina, or behind the vagina, see your doctor.

Also, it’s important to know that once you get infected, it’s a regional infection. For example, you can get a wart inside your anus even if you haven’t had anal sex.”

www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/hpv/hpv-warts-misunderstood-std/

@sergeilavrov . Unfortunately no, im located in south east asia. Thank you for your kind words.

For those who said cervical polyp , thank you so much. It does seem to be that .At least i can breathe a sigh of relief. Im in no pain whatsoever so it's going to be hard to convince my parents to bring me to the doctors. I had a huge sebaceous cyst once and they told me to just deal with the pain and discomfort until it got too bad. My cyst was infected quite badly when they finally agreed to bring to me to the hospital. Im going to try to get it checked, hopefully soon. But Im most probably going to go there alone.
For those who are concerned about my sexual experience, thank you. I consented to that and enjoy it. It wasnt really an "honour" thing, i just want to keep vaginal sex exclusive for my husband, not for religious reasons. I do come from a religious family but personally i dont really care about it.
Thank you all for your input. I really appreciate it.

They’re not all flat discs you know.

And do they suddenly appear at that size?

SoupDragon,
Depends on how the individual reacts to the virus.
All I said is it “might” be HPV. It might.
I’m not diagnosing anyone, but you are by ruling out a possibility sight unseen.

I just spat my tea out over gods little loophole

Fucking hell