In September DH had his prostate removed, he’s doing fine, follow up tests show no cancer. But he’s so tired and seems constantly snippy with me. I also think he’s struggling to come to terms with lack of erections, they should come back but it can take several months.
The problem is where he’s sniping at me he’s very cold at the moment and doesn’t seem very happy, I’m trying as much as I can to help him but not getting any reciprocal efforts is very difficult so I end up sniping at him too. He’s never great in winter with SAD anyway so honestly I’m dreading February and March.
I’d be very grateful for any suggestions to help him. The medication route is proving problematic as he has reacted badly to some of the things the doctor has suggested. Although he’s seeing gp again today.