Im cracking up, please help me

[meesa]

the kids are down stairs,

little one is so clingy hasnt stopped crying all morning, hes just screams if i pick him up, screnms if i put him dowm

im sobbing, the phones wont work theyve both just gone off - i want to call my mum but the phones are brokem

i feel like i dont like them

hes screming his head off

i just want abbreak from this,

hes 14 months old and he wont even play by himself

right.

park them in front of a dvd now.

lock front door so no one can go anywhere.

run a bath.

get in.

have a cry.

wash your hair (this ALWAYS HELPS)

dry it and get some clothes on that you like.

deep breath.

then get them all in buggy, go to phone box phone best friend/mum/sister/whoever will help you and make you feel better and tell them that you want them to come out for lunch with you and kids. go to cafe.

that is my plan.

you are human. I hate ds sometimes. doesn't mean i don't love him.

Oh Meesa, that sounds like an awful situation.Have you anyone you can email to come round and visit you and help to sort out the phones? Is your mum local enough to visit? Will they settle in front of the TV for a while?

i put baby channel on and gave him a buiscui but hes still down there screaming

i dont wanna do that, but i cant go down there. its too much

the 3 rd old said its ok mummy, i love you

now i feel 10x worse

yea shes round the corner but i cant go out as waiting for a courrier to pick up DHs parcel
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sorry my typings a mess i just cant be bother at the mo and am a bit teary

meesa where do you live?maybe you have friendly mner in your area?
when it gets like that here i load baby in buggy,get other 2 ready and walk-anywhere!

oh got to wait for parcel.

You're having a bad day, we all have them. Sophable had some good advice. Get yourselves out of the house. 14 months can be a difficult time. How long have you been feeling like this?

sorry, didn't see about the parcel.

Is your DH at work? Can he come home early if you really need him to?

Try putting a towel in the dryer for a few minutes and then let him snuggle with it. Worked great for a friend of mine.

Is there anyone on MSN at the moment who you know? ask them to call your mum for you, or email someone you know is at thier pc to call her for you, dh perhaps.

hiya

i couldnt ask anyone from MN to come round id be too embarrsed

im a reg - namechanged cause i just feel so shit for feeling like this

i found my mobile & txt my mum and shes gonna come round ut feel guilty as shes not to good herself.

Gave DS some medised as hes hot - dont know if hes ill or just worked himself up.

feel calmer dowm but worried at how much i almost lost it.

DH wont vcom e home , but will be okwhen mum gets here

thankyou

will try warm blankie - good idea

messa -= I lost it too last week and palmed my two off, one to MIL and one to my DM.
I didn't feel proud of myself for doing it but I knew I'd reached my breaking point.
Don't be too hard on yourself. Remember you have to have some really crap days so that you can recognise and enjoy the good ones

medised worked fast DSis asleep now

meesa,we all lose it,children are hard work at times.dont be hard on yourself.

Bless him. There are lots of bugs going around atm, maybe he is coming down with something.
Don't beat yourself u about it - I lose it with DD far too often, for the last 3-4 weeks I have been trying really hard when I about to shout at her to stop myself and talk to her calmly.
It's hard being a parent sometimes

thats why i left him downstairs - i didnt want to shout at him,

im gonna go lie down with them both now and try to have a nap xx

thanks again x