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How likely is that this is an injury caused by abuse?

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jonathanlivingstoneseagull · 25/06/2019 08:55

I have an issue with my neck that I have always just lived with and never had checked out by a doctor.

It's a bit like it has a permanent crick in it, my shoulders are permanently tensed and my neck kind of twists off to one side.

I have never been to a doctor about it, although I have been told by a chiropractor and sports masseuse that I also have a twist in my pelvis and that this makes one leg shorter than the other, so there is basically tension throughout my spine which I would imagine exacerbates the neck pain.

I've started to think more about it recently as I go to Counselling and we have discussed the physical abuse I was put through in childhood which involved repeated dragging around by the next - he frequently put me in a headlock and dragged me around by my neck and it's only now that I'm considering that that kind of pressure on a child's neck might cause permanent damage of the kind that I have always dismissed as just being how I am.

Does anyone have any experience of this kind of neck problem or twisted pelvis? Is this caused by physical trauma or just how some people are made?

I could see a doctor, I guess. I always assumed I just had to live with the pain/discomfort and I don't really notice it. But I suppose now I am taking care of myself in other ways I am considering whether I should look into this.

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jonathanlivingstoneseagull · 25/06/2019 08:55

by the neck, not next. Sorry for typos, I found this quite hard to write down.

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blackcat86 · 25/06/2019 09:08

It sounds like yours first step is to see your GP and to get your injuries/pain looked in to. I'm really sorry that you had a poor upbringing and I'm glad that your accessing counselling. Physical tension can also be part of mental trauma and holding on to emotion to you may find that counselling helps to.

jonathanlivingstoneseagull · 25/06/2019 09:34

Thank you blackcat I will make an appointment. It feels like making a massive fuss and wasting their time when I've put up with it for so long. Also I'm not sure there's any treatment so would I just be going to make it real, what I went through. That's what I'm wondering.

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Iggly · 25/06/2019 09:36

I’m sorry that you’ve been put through this.

Please see the Gp, it’s important to try and get this fixed. It help you heal mentally as well.

jonathanlivingstoneseagull · 25/06/2019 12:37

Thankyou iggly. I guess I'm worried I'll be told it's nothing and then it;s like it doesn't matter.

Also wondering if there's another perfetly reasnable explanation for it.

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