Sorry for the long post, but I’m a little confused and slightly peeved!
I’m 51 and due to issues I’d been having over the past few months, and a strong family history for bowel cancer, my new GP referred me under the 2 week wait. Previous GP wasn’t concerned, so I left it for a while, and returned after I had a strange bleed 3 weeks ago. Am post menstrual so it was odd. My late mother’s consultant of 20+ years ago, suggested we had genetic screening for possible lynch syndrome, as my mum had two separate primary cancers, bowel and throat, first at 48, and again in her 50s. Her dad passed at 42 from stomach & bowel, her brother at 52 from bowel & kidney, her father’s mum at 40 from uterine, her father’s sister at 44 from ovarian. All cancers that are strongly suggestive of Lynch syndrome, HNPCC. My cousin in the US, is regularly screened, and his doctors have been very switched on to the family history risks, and are so proactive. Here however, nobody seems bothered! My mother was diagnosed with her bowel cancer after 2 years of issues being dismissed as IBS, and it was a frank bleed that finally got her to hospital, where unfortunately it was already terminal. Similarly her brother took a long time to get diagnosed. Again too late.
When I’ve asked about screening in the past, it’s been skirted around as a non issue. If you have a problem, just let us know....so fast forward a few years to now, and I’ve just seen the consultant from my urgent referral. Waited 2 hours for a 5 minute appointment. He was rushed, brusque and very brief. Having quickly explained my issues, and asked me about my family history, he immediately seemed to discount everything as insignificant. He almost seemed irritated as I was listing my relatives...a wave of the hand and ‘that’s enough’. He then remarked that ‘They were different cancers, not just bowel, so it may not mean anything.’ Which surprised me, as in the US, my cousin’s doctors seem to take a very different approach!
The consultation ended abruptly with him saying he didn’t think I needed a colonoscopy, as he doubted very much he’d find anything. And I am too young for him to be concerned. When I pointed out that I was older than my mum when she was diagnosed, he seemed shocked at my age and had to double check my date of birth!
So in and out in 5 minutes. No examination, other than looking towards my jumper when I talked about the bloating, and commenting that I looked slim. Didn’t want to see the images of my stomach with it’s lopsided distension and visible waves of movement. (I’m lifelong 8stone and was always blessed with being flat!) Didn’t seem to think my daily bouts of left sided pain was anything unusual. Just didn’t seem bothered at all! So I’m being ‘downgraded’ to a scan. Because he doesn’t think there is anything to find... Has anyone had similar issues with screening or getting a diagnosis on something? I thought things would have improved in the years since my poor mother was around, but seemingly not!
On the other hand, my cousin had private insurance, and when she had a problem, she was seen within 2 days, and by the end of the week was diagnosed and started treatment right away. It really saved her life.
I know it may well not be anything, but unless they have a proper look, how will they ever know? Would appreciate anyone else’s experiences with this, particularly if you have similar family history. Thank you x