Hi, just needing opinions on what to do really. My mother in law has terminal cancer at 71 she has been found to have the BRCA 2 gene. My partners brother, sister and other sister have all tested negative for it. My partner doesn’t want to have the test I don’t think he wants to know and I think it affects life insurance etc. The trouble is we have a 9 month old son and I’m scared to death that if my partner has it it could be passed to him. Even if my partner tested positive though,it’s a 50/50 chance our son could have it too but he wouldn’t be able to be tested until he was 18, so that’s 18 years of waiting to see. I don’t know what to do at all. 😥