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How do you politely tell someone that they have really bad breath🤭

7 replies

genie2193 · 02/10/2018 17:36

My friend has really bad breath and I mean bad! I’ve tried being subtle about it and offering mints etc but that’s not worked... it’s not that they’re dirty and don’t brush it’s just a constant odour in the mouth. I don’t want to say straight up “your breath smells” but it’s getting gross now. Any advice?

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mimibunz · 02/10/2018 17:38

Try telling them you have recently been having problems with bad breath and ask their advice on what to do? It might start them thinking about their own?

mimibunz · 02/10/2018 17:40

I have an ex bf who had halitosis and he told me straight up to tell him if it was bad. Apparently it was a medical issue.

SpuriouserAndSpuriouser · 02/10/2018 17:45

If it was a close friend I would just tell her straight. Not in a horrible way, but I’d say that I wanted to tell her something in case she wasn’t aware and that I would want to know if it was me, then I’d just come out and say that I’d noticed recently that her breath has a strong smell and maybe she should ask her dentist/GP about it.

Harrykanesrightsock · 02/10/2018 17:48

Can you maybe ask if she’s changed her diet? just say you are now aware of her breath where you weren’t before. That might fine her a gentle prod.

Tanfastic · 02/10/2018 17:55

Is your friend likely to take offence?

I can sometimes get bad breath, especially when I've got a cold and I always know if I have because I get a funny taste in my mouth. I am absolutely meticulous about teeth cleaning and using mouthwash etc when I know I'm a bit pongy.
I'm quite upfront about it though, and dh tells me if it stinks and so does ds 😂😂

hannnnnnnxo · 02/10/2018 20:30

I would be somewhat upfront about it and say things like ‘just thought I should let you know that your breath smells a bit strong today, wouldn’t want you to feel embarrassed at that meeting, I would want you to tell me if that was me’ etc. But in a caring way rather than a mean way.

It might be that she needs to go to the dentist and has been putting it off etc.

I had a manager that would drink loads of coffee and had constant bad coffee breath - it was awful and made conversations with her unbearable.

Essexmummy88 · 02/10/2018 20:33

Awkward situation, I really don’t think I’d be able to come right out and say it and I would be so embarrassed if it was said to me, However gently. I think id say “did you eat something with ...... last night? Smells really strong!” Rather than saying their breath is bad if you know what I mean

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