Thanks for the replies.
I always loved sleeping. Since I was a child. My parents never had a problem putting me to bed. I loved naps too and my love for naps as a child remained with me through life although there are many times when life gets in the way and I can't get a nap.
I'm in my current working job for about 10 years. In the early days, whenever I found myself with a break, I would eat lunch and dose off. 10 - 15/20 minutes would have been enough for me. I was going through a rough patch at the time with the fallout out from my sister. We lived together at the time and shared a room and what I experienced was awful. She used to keep me awake at night. It was sleep deprivation from her. I moved out and away from that but it felt as if I never really recovered from that exhaustion.
That was many years ago now.
I don't know what normal tiredness feels like. I will say every day is different for me. There is a lot of stresses and a lot of it is major, in my life for the past number of months. My work is ok but there's a lot of demands on me. Every day is different.
It's only in recent years I changed from being a night owl to a morning owl. A typical day for me would be rising about 7am and bedtime at 10pm. Sometimes I rise earlier (I find them days to be better for me. I get so much done) and sometimes I might go to bed later.
I do get tired during the days. I feel I need a nap and more often than not I fight it. Other times, if I'm free, I do nap.
It's so hard to know what to do. I am experiencing other issues with my health, hayfever and cough and that can be troublesome at night. I was at the doctor today and things went well. My current issues will be treated first.
I did download a sleep/snore app last night. Its records your sleep and snoring and gives a chart of the snoring.
What I saw on the chart was interesting, lines of relatively flat followed by spikes. The night time coughing I'm currently experiencing is like big, fat up and down blops on the chart. What I heard when I played it back shocked me. There were times when there were quite spells followed by what was like choking or gasping. So, just going by that alone, it's not looking great.