dd is 9.5 months old, I'm still breastfeeding. I think i have had 2 periods... about 28 days apart, only they were short...only bled for 2-3 days... not much to them really... pre-pregnancy they were 7 days, heavy and painful. So i was expecting my next period on last monday but, no show.... and we had an accident with a condom. But, a few days afterthe accident, was when i thought my period had come.. but like i say, it was really short if it was one. I did a pregnancy test a week ago which was negative and another today, also negative. For a week i have had cramps, but no period. I have been feeling ill... as in early stages of morning sickness-type feeling, mood-swingy too (as i was in early stages of last pregnancy). So if I'm not pregnant, why do I have cramps, feel awful and have no period this month? Should my periods be relatively regular by now? Or can i feel this bad just from being tired?