Hi all, never posted on here before. I'm actually not a mum myself but this site was recommended to me by my boyfriends mum and I thought I'd ask for help here as there are clearly lots of very smart and lovely women on here who I'm sure can help me :)
Around the 20th of Jan I woke up suddenly in the middle of the night busting for a wee and thought nothing of it but after going to the loo three times in a row the feeling didn't go away at all. At this time my urine tested positive for blood, protein and white blood cells. After three courses of antibiotic the symptoms finally cleared up after three weeks of constant pain/discomfort/urgency.
However, following a very small glass of white wine the horrible symptoms came rushing back and have been with me ever since. Now my urine isn't testing positive for anything at all and a gynaecologist who I saw in A&E when I went out of sheer desperation says it is definitely urological and I need to be seen urgently.
My mum went with my to see a private urologist called Dr Ravi but he was no help at all. He gave me ya keys but after three weeks on them I have given them up as they made no difference what so ever. They were an antispasmodic.
On Monday after begging the NHS for help and seeing countless GPs I'm finally getting an appointment with an NHS urologist on Monday! I am scared that he will confirm what other doctors have suggested, that I might have interstitial cystitis a chronic pain disorder :'(.
The only thing is this all came in overnight and I'm more convinced it may be a chronic UTI as from my research I've found that many urine tests used by the NHS and most health services are only 50% accurate and don't detect many strains of bacteria. I read this article yesterday and wondered if I could be suffering from what these women have: www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.news-medical.net/amp/news/20180320/Antibiotics-could-benefit-women-suffering-from-chronic-bladder-pain.aspx .
I'm also stumped about what I should do while I'm stuck at home curled up with a heating pad on co-codomal trying to deal with the constant discomfort. Prior to this I was a full time student. I was wondering if there was any type of online admin work I could do from my laptop.
The last few months with this unknown illness have been complete hell and after weeks of sleep deprivation, pain and no answers I had reached a point about two weeks ago where I was on the phone to Samaritans feeling like I had no future at all. After getting a prescription for sleeping tablets (zopiclone) I'm feeling MUCH more like myself but im still in a lot of discomfort 24/7 and can't do anything that I normally do. It's horribly lonely.
Other than the urine cultures I've also had 3 ultrasounds, 3 blood tests and a smear test.
Confusingly after the second ultrasound I was told I had a cyst on my left overt by my GP and referred to a gynaecologist but have since seen one (in the emergency department) and been scanned a third time and told I have no cyst, just healthy follicles which are present in all young women.
If anyone can offer me advice for dealing with the pain and discomfort, not screaming at NHS staff and how to have some form of a life (and income!) while dealing with pain/discomfort 24/7 it would really help 👍🏻. If you've bothered reading all this then thank you :).