Hi Everyone
Please could I have some advice and hear people's experiences about recovering from a gallbladder removal operation?
My specific concerns are:
Pain - how bad is it afterwards and do you get given adequate pain relief?
Lifting things - specifically my 16 month old daughter, and also lugging her pram about. I am very lucky to have my husband and parents who can help care for her whilst I recover. I am wondering for those who had the op done who have small children, how soon were you regularly able to pick them up/carry them after the op?
Long term effects - I am hearing horror stories about chronic diarrhoea and continuing pain after the op. I realise this isn't common but…
At the moment, I don't have the colic attacks. I have a constant but waxing and waning dull ache in my upper right-hand side, and sporadic indigestion and vomiting. It's not great, but it's not awful either. Frankly I am worried about swapping one set of problems for a worse set of problems based on what I've read.
I realise it's a really common surgery and most are successful. I'm a wuss. Absolutely terrified of having the surgery.
I have two small gallstones which are causing me symptoms, and my GP has recommended I have the surgery to remove my gallbladder. I had the ultrasound scan done Thursday morning, which found the gallstones, and two hours later my GP was on the phone asking if I wanted a referral for surgery! I was impressed at the efficiency but also a bit taken aback as hadn't had time to process things yet. I discussed it with him and I said I'd give it some thought and let him know what I want to do.
Since then I've researched the operation and alternatives (there don't seem to be any effective alternatives from what I could find) and have decided (reluctantly) that surgery is best before it gets worse or I get complications. I'm absolutely terrified of the surgery. My two surgical experiences involve a c-section where the spinal injection anaesthetic didn't work (ended up having general, will spare you the details…) and a colonoscopy where I woke up in the middle of it… 9 so yeah. I realise this is totally different though and a very common operation.
Any advice gratefully received!