More of a rant than a question. Me and the OH have had great sexual tension and started off great in terms of a sex life, however due to a lifelong condition my libido is up and down and since having the kids has been mostly down. He understands and has been great about it. When my libido is peaked sex is great. Here’s the downer..... since last September we’ve had sex maybe 5 times. Here’s why... at the end of September I had a stomach virus which turned in to gastrisis which put me out of commission for 4 weeks after being hospitalised. November was fine no issues.. then beginning of December... I get a cold then laryngitis and then another cold... fine for a week in which time he got a chest infection. Then I had the Aussie flu for 23 days.... we had maybe 2 weeks and now I caught a cold again.... it’s nearly finished and my libido is peaked but now he’s got another chest infection. It’s like we just can’t catch a break. He was fine on weds as he was trying it on with me and I said no because if he gets a cold it lasts like 2 weeks where as mine is usually 3/4 days. He was trying to convince me that sex helps a cold, but am I the only one that don’t feel like sex when your ill? So we literally can not catch a break it seems when one of us is well the other is ill. Usually I get a cold maybe twice a year. I consume a lot of vitamin c and other vitamins which seems to be useless and I have OCD about washing hands usually washing them every time I touch something. Starting to piss me off now 😬