I’m still trying to work out how to address this mess... even just describing the issue is difficult! I hey really upset then I seem hysterical and generally shit!
I’m trying to summarise:
I was extremely concerned to receive a consultant letter which raises some serious issues that needs resolving and editing urgently.
The contents of the letter draws on a reference to an upsetting incident in the summer involving my son and a carer, which I had shared in the appointment. In the appointment I had explained what had happened briefly, in the context of how difficult things have been since the last appointment (12-18mths prior).
Within the letter, concerns about this incident had been juxtaposed with questions around my mental health, using inaccurate and incomplete information.
My concerns are that this section of the letter:
- Goes far beyond the specialism of the consultant
- Uses inaccurate and incomplete information
- And creates doubt in either my ability to look after my child due to this incident (which was fully investigated & resolved months ago by the proper authorities), or/and questioning my credibility, due to this old and disputed potential mental health diagnosis.
There may not be direct allegations , however the implications are clear and give rise to extremely serious doubts, which will be raised each and every time this letter is read.
The letter draws on a discussion with a gp at the practice I’m signed up to. This discussion took place with a GP who was not familiar with my case then, nor my current condition or any details of the incident with my son.
I did give permission for the consultant to speak or write to the GP practice about my difficulties in accessing GP care and management of my physical condition. This discussion went far beyond this topic, but doesn’t seem to have added clarity? This discussion seems to have led to the cherry picking/ focusing in on a potential mh diagnosis from some time ago which was never confirmed and came from an appointment that I’d found very difficult and unhelpful.
(For example, the physical issues I face everyday due to my physical condition, were minimised, ignored or misattributed). As a result I decided not to continue, with the agreement of a gp at the practice and also my counsellor at the time.
I am shocked that this has been shared in the call, and then used to build assumptions on, in the letter.
It also seems that the consultant has also asked the gp for the accompanying mental health report (again without my permission being sought). I would question what the motivation for this is, and whether its germaine to my treatment.
Moving on, I am shocked that these issues would be discussed within the context of a rheumatology appointment write up, containing such serious inferences, which are potentially damaging to my credibility and ability to access medical care in the future.
These notes can now be accessed across many hospitals and consultants within the trust, across which I have several appointments / clinics (as my condition is systemic).
This raises issues about patient confidentiality, and also my sons confidentiality as well.
Finally, I understand that child safeguarding is everyone’s duty, but the manner in which these concerns have been raised has not helped safe guard a child.
Sadly, it seems that neither the consultant nor the GP asked myself or the relevant services for more information and reassurance.
(I also note that if there was such a concern I’m also very surprised there hasn’t been an alert and investigation by children’s services, in the 3 months since the appointment).