Hi guys, I'm here for some insight maybe some reassurance. I've had a little, brown, raised mole on my arm for as long as I can remember. It has never bothered me despite having two small toddlers that have constantly rubbed on it for the last three years.(sensory issue?) It is not red, itchy, oozing, or painful. About two weeks ago while sitting outside I thought it's color looked a little off. To me, it looks a little fleshy colored in the middle but still brown around it. My husband and mom ( whos moley) noticed the color only after I pointed it out but otherwise told me it was nothing to worry about. Of course, I started to obsess over it. I have had a derm appt already set up for the first week of August but decided to see my primary Dr just for piece of mind. As soon as I showed her she said it was really reassuring. Color, border.. It looked normal. I was okay for a couple of days but started obsessing AGAIN. It doesn't help that I've had arm pain that i know could easily be from cosleeping and breastfeeding but now I feel like what if the mole is causing it. I made an appt with another primary that can remove and send off the mole. This is in a few days. I'm still going to the derm in August but just want this thing off! It's seriously putting me in a slump for some reason and I hate it. I'd like some reassurance.. Am I freaking out over nothing? Should I just trust my primary? Sorry about the super long post but is appreciate any and all feedback!