sore & disappearing lady garden??? oh the embarresment!

[ladybaldy]

Firstly sorry for the namechange but there is no way on gods earth, I'd discuss this with my real mn name!

For approx a year I've suffered with dry & itchy skin around my nether regions.
Skin has become very dry recently and has gone a darker colour from the rest and now have noticed my lady garden is thinning!

It is constantly itchy and can't face going to the docs, I'll die of embarresment

I'm going bald down there....and dh thought he had probs with thinning hair!

Please help

dermatitis?
Go on, let your GP take a swatch!

Is there anyway to clear it up without going to gp?

honestly - GP won't bat an eyelid and will have seen far more extreme cases...it is horrid going but you will feel so much better if you do.
Be brave

get to docs fgs baldy, love. he/she will have seen more lady gardens than you could imagine and many of those far more unsightly than yours!!

But he's an old fart!

sorry to any gp's about but he is, could I see the nurse instead, shes nice

Perhaps you could ask the question on netdoctor.co.uk or phone NHS direct? HTH

Umm no chance of infections/thrush/small creatures living down there is there? Sorry have to ask.

I get that if anyone washes my knickers in Persil.

So I've given up wearing knickers (hurrah instant air conditioning).

If you are really concerned about your GPs opinion of your lady garden, cut the hedge and install a water feature before your appointment LOL

its all clean and sweet smelling...but I'm getting a bit worried now about it and it so embarrasing, its reducing me to tears atm.

Sorry I'm being a big baby I know

Don't cry - call your GP surgery and ask about well women clinics in your area if you don't want to go there. Chances are, it's a really minor skin complaint that can be fixed up tickedy boo in five days.

Did the darker colour come on after childbirth by chance and are you bfing? It can be a hormone issue (in which case it'll get better, or not as your hormones settle).

thanks, i never thought of a well woman clinic.
I can't belive I'm letting it get to me yet I'm too scared to go to the gp's fs!

but it's horrid having something hanging over you isn't it...I promise once you have had it sorted it will be a weight off your shoulders.

Blimey GibbonInARibbon, I'd heard a bit of stretching of that area was normal in childbirth....but if you can get yours over your head, maybe you should see the doc too

HI,

I have had similar prob, it was dermatitis, got some cream to apply, and a cream to wash with instead of soap.

Am totally avoiding normal soaps, shower gels, for 'there'

I had never heard of dermatitis below, but after a google found it could be that, and my gp confirmed this.

I had has treatment for thrush but it made no difference, and the swab showed no other infections.

so please go and be checked, its so norm for the gp's.

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Changed my name here too!

Could be psoriasis (spelling?!) I suffer from that in a lot of places including DOWN THERE and it is v itchy. Please go to the docs because there are some great creams that will really help. If skin is v flaky and itchy I find sudocrem to be great.

Off to change my name back now!

Dont worry about your GP being an old fart, surely thats ideal, can you imagine having to show a young gorgeous hunk of a doctor?................not a cat in hells chance

Thank you, I'm def off to gp's in the morning.
Its a relief to know that others have had similar probs and I'm not a complete freak!

I'm going to try and stop crying now, seem no have done nothing bu cry tonight since I've finally admitted to myself that I need to get his sorted out now.

Thank you

Google something called lichen sclerosis, get a mirror and have a good look - just make sure you can rule LS out because it is a real bummer and health professionals have almost never heard of it.

Ok I am not a doctor (or medical at all in fact) but I think this sounds distinctly like lichen planus. I've just googled it and it does sound like a possibility. Hope you got on ok with the GP it is horrid going for these sorts of things.

My SIL has lichen sclerosis. I have to admit, your symptoms sound very similar to hers.

well been to gp's, only got to see the locum who didn't look a day over twenty!.

Says its dermititis, aggrevated by a fungal infection. It was so embarressing, I could have died.
Given me cream to put on twice daily and should clear up in 5-10days.
But shouldn't anything fragranced down there from now on or it will flare up the dermititis.

Well done for going. It's bloody horrible having to bare your bits, but fingers crossed that it starts to get better now.

well done, yes, I ws given cream, and one to wash with too. Guess you could see how it goes with the cream to apply.

I am now v careful what products i use.

well done lady baldy!