After the shock departure of STBXH of 22 years with a mutual friend and the discovery that she is the latest in a line of infidelities I knew nothing about, whilst I have been sexually exclusive with him for 25 years I now have realised my sexual health has been compromised by his behaviour.
He is unlikely to have worn a condom as he had a vasectomy and so we used no contraception in our marriage either so I am compromised.
Has any one any experience or advice please. I know that having an sti test on my medical records can affect my ability to get life insurance.
I have no symptoms and I am unlikely to get an honest answer about his sexual activity but know many STI's have no symptoms. His current partner (female) is bisexual and this concerns me because I have been reading that statistically there are lower rates of testing in the LGBTQ community than in the heterosexual community. Cost of private testing is prohibitive. Heartbroken and also terrified at what I might discover or what I might need testing for?