Hi, any advice and reassurance would be so welcome....loads of you must have had this LLETZ treatment after a bad colposcopy result. I'm booked in for the procedure next week but we are supposed to be spending June in the US taking our baby to see lots of family and friends etc.
This doesn't feel like a massive operation (although of course might end up with massive consequences) but I'm not sure whether to go or not.
Pros include getting a great holiday after a year of babycare, and ticking off various overdue family visits.
Cons include not being able to enjoy the holiday as much if I'm not feeling great; not being able to swim; being annoyed by awful in laws' unhelpful comments and not being able to shout 'I've just had an operation for pre cancer you fucking fucks'. Also - more importantly - not being at home for when the results arrive and being away if there are any complications (I rang the insurer and spoke to someone who said she'd add 'dyskaryosis' to my policy and that I'd be covered if I needed to see someone, but she didn't have a clue about any of the terms I mentioned and said it would be ok because i was having treatment for something that had already been found, rather than this being the investigation, which of course is not the full story).
Arguably we could go to the US in September, just we'll put loads of noses out of joint and I want to be properly back at work then.
As it happens we haven't bought flights as are trying to exchange on a house first (any day now....) and were going to buy the flights as soon as we had.
So we'd be travelling two weeks after the operation. I've ignored post surgery advice before and will live with the pain from that forever it seems (ok, three yrs so far).
It's one of those things where I have to make the call myself which feels very hard. Sorry this is so bloody long.
Any advice? Thank you X