My ds who is now 3.5 yrs old was born at term but weighed only 4lbs 15oz. He went down to 4lbs 8oz. He was very poorly/floppy/poor suck reflex/prolonged janudice etc. I was told that it was a result of IUGR (intrauterine growth restriction). Our fist 6 months were one long round of hospital visits and tests and it was nightmarish. He seems very well now and I love him to bits. I am wondering about having another child....it has taken this long for me to build up my courage. I supposedly did everything "right" in my first pregnancy..I dont smoke, dont drink, dont do recreational drugs, took folic acid and vitamins..and it still went horribly wrong. The mw and scan did not pick up anything and that worries me too. Am I stupid to want to try again? Would really appreciate some advice, especially if anyone has any experience of this.....thanks