How can you tell whether a 3-4mo (who hasn't yet discovered that he has hands) has earache?
Ds2 has a chesty cold and a bit of catarrh. He doesn't feel as if he has a fever. The catarrh doesn't seem to bother him or affect his feeding, yet sometimes he really struggles to feed. At times he screams if laid or held anywhere near horizontal and is only happy when held upright. Twice last night he woke screaming. The same signs could be wind, of course, but he doesn't generally bring up a bubble or fart when this happens, nor can I feel or hear wind inside him. Two days ago one ear had a lot of crusty orangey-brown stuff in it.
Could he have ear-ache? And how can I help him?