Not sure what I'm looking for in posting here, just don't want to needlessly trouble friends and family I guess....you lot though 
Have two DC under 4...one is still BFing. Found a lump about a month back, GP said it needed checking...went in today and radiologist said he thought it was very suspicious so took 3 biopsy samples (ouch!) - consultant looked grim and said its a two week wait and then will discuss next steps, but he agreed it was 'very suspicious'. Said to take a while to digest the news...I was just in shock really.
If anyone reading this has already been through the drill, could you tell me what to expect? I don't quite know how to feel just now. I keep looking at the kids and calculating how old they'd be and what stage of life they'd be at in say 5, 10 or 15 years. 
I feel like a bit of a shit mum to even be in this position with regard to the little ones.