I was diagnosed with fibroids last year.
It was actually picked up by accident. I went to my GP complaining that my IBS symptoms were getting worse. I was referred to the gastroentrologists to ensure it was nothing more sinister. They carried out an abdominal scan which didn't reveal anything to do with the IBS but did reveal a huge fibroid, which was news to me.
I hadn't had any problems with my periods in fact they were getting less frequent (I'm nearly 50 so just thought I was perimenopausal.) However after being told this my periods immediately became heavier and more painful!
The issue with it was it was pressing on my renal tract so when I was told about the fibroid it was a light bulb moment. For years I'd been weeing loads and wanting to wee NOW. I assumed it was my age and also I admit I drink loads of Diet Coke so thought it was that.
I don't have kids. We would have liked them but it didn't happen. After a while of nothing happening, we both went to the GP. I had bloods which were all normal. He had a sperm count which came back as 'low and slow.' We talked about taking it further but decided if I was to get pregnant fine, but we decided we didn't go down the IVF route. On hindsight, I now wonder if the fibroid also played a part as I was told I'd probably had it for years, but obviously it didn't come come up on blood tests.
I got referred onto gynae, and had further investigations and was given the options. Actually, because of the size, the options were hysterctomy-take it or leave it. Medication, keyhole surgery etc were ruled out because of the size. I asked if we could hold off till after my menopause as they often shrink after that but was tod it wouldn't shrink that much. After weighing it all up, i went for the operation. I was told by the surgeon after it was the size of a 7 month pregnancy
. I'm not skinny by any definition-if I had been it may have been more obvious. It was so big my uterus was all misshapen and was palpable under my ribs. They had been considering a vertical rather than bikini line incision because of this but this is a last resort as it means more scarring and because youre going against the natural way the muscles sit, takes longer to heal. In the end I got a bikini line one but I assume that there was a lot more internal stitches than normal as it did take a while to heal and I was off work for 3 months. Even now I get the odd twinge.
It has helped my symptoms but they didn't go completely as my pelvic floor muscles are very weak but I'm seeing a women's health physio and this is helping. I do wonder if the pressure from my fibroid, as well as pressing on my renal tract, did put pressure on my pelvic floor making them weaker in a similar way to pregnancy.